Dating After a Separation Posted: 08-01-06 12:56pm
I separated from my husband of 15 years
(20 years together) in july 2005. Our
seperation was mutual and amicable.
I met a wonderful man whom I love
tremendously. Once in a while out of the
blue, i'll call him by my husband's name.
Its not something I do consciously or
intentionally, his name just comes out of
my mouth and then I realize what i've
said. What puzzles me is that I don't
even think about my ex-husband.
My boyfriends makes a huge issue out of
this and I don't know what to do. Help?
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ricky776
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2007 Posts: 7 Location: uk
Nooooo Posted: 01-08-07 20:45pm
Hiya
i can understand your b/f as if my g/f
said some one elses name I would go mad
i think there more you think about it the
more you will say it
maybe its the things you used to do with
your hubby e.G washing up makes you think
about him with knowing it its you get what
I mean
maybe you should talk to your b/f and tell
him what you have said here and even show
him this if you tell him your worried he
will better understand you
