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r0k1t

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Posted: 08-01-06 13:23pm

I've had unprotected sex for the second time a couple nights ago. Both times, my partner never went all the way in and he never came. I'm feeling kind of nervous however about my chances of becoming pregnant because I was stupid enough to have no protection twice.

I'm supposed to get my period between the 7th and the 10th of this month. What are some signs I should look for and, if you can help, what are my chances of becoming pregnant?
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 08-01-06 13:47pm

Even though he didn't go all the way in you still had sex.And yes there is a chance cause there is something called pre-cum which does contain sperm.You can't really look for signs cause then you'll think your pregnant when your really not.Wait untuil you are suppose to get your period.If you don't you should take a pregnancy test.Your chances are about 50/50.Use a condom next time or refrain from having sex
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Ingi

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Posted: 08-01-06 14:23pm

My advice is to not allow that to happen again. First, because there are so many different diseases he could potentially have and all you would need to do is come in contact with them - whether he went all the way in or not!

.F.Y.I: the majority of people who spread the herpes virus have no active lesions (sores) at the time they have sex and 'share' it with someone else. That means the person may not even know they have herpes when they spread it around.

Also, hpv causes warts - another life long condition. If you are super lucky, you might get the high risk variety of hpv - the kind that can cause cancer!

Seriously, not wearing a condom (at the very least) is like playing russian roulette with your life and your health. Have some respect for your body and take care of it! Make your partner (long term partner too!) wear a condom every time. No halfways about it.

You are probably very fortunate and not pregnant - but that doesn't mean you aren't 'safe'. Be safe in the future.

Good luck!
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kim12345

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Posted: 08-01-06 16:25pm

Why do people always say always wear a condom cos u can get a disease..If u r trying for a baby then u cant wear a condom..I have never understood why people say that even if its ure long term partner :?
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r0k1t

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Posted: 08-01-06 17:54pm

Some more background info:

my partner had been tested before we had sex and everything came back negative. I have also never had sex until we were together... I still run the risk of getting an std, correct?
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Ingi

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Posted: 08-01-06 19:06pm

kim12345 wrote:
why do people always say always wear a condom cos u can get a disease..If u r trying for a baby then u cant wear a condom..I have never understood why people say that even if its ure long term partner :?


this person is not actively trying to have a baby.

If you are actively trying to have a baby, you both need to be tested for diseases.
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Ingi

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Posted: 08-01-06 19:07pm

r0k1t wrote:
some more background info:

my partner had been tested before we had sex and everything came back negative. I have also never had sex until we were together... I still run the risk of getting an std, correct?


there is actually no test for men who carry the high risk hpv virus. He could have passed that to you unknowingly.
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