Joined: 02 Aug 2006 Posts: 4 Location: United States
Problem Reaching Orgasm Posted: 08-03-06 18:38pm
Hello all,
i was shot when I was 18 and suffered some
nerve damage in my body. Soon after
this, I discovered during masturbation
that I could no longer reach orgasm even
tho I can still get an erection and
masturbation and sex still feel physically
pleasing. I have discovered over the
years that I can reach orgasm but only
when stimulating my prostate by inserting
a sexual device up my rear end. Though
this does work, I worry about possible
long term effects this might have on my
health and it is awkward to have to do
that and stimulate myself in order to
reach orgasm with my woman.
Does anyone know of any other options, be
it medication or hypnotherapy anything
else that might help me to reach orgasm
without the manual stimulation to my
prostate?
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Striker001
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Sep 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 08-05-06 21:30pm
You have what is called a "high orgasmic
threshold" and this can occur naturally in
some men or can be caused by nerve damage
due to disease or other causes.
The usual effects of this high orgasmic
threshold are inhibited ejaculation/orgasm
and sometimes erectile difficulty plus you
will have a need for intense visual and
physical stimulation to get yourself to
the point where you can have an orgasm.
The prostate gland in where all the
circuitry from the penis to the brain
passes and massaging it enhances sexual
pleasure and sensitivity. As long as
you are using a proper sex toy like a vib
or a butt plug, or even the new aneros
prostate massager, you should have no ill
effects on your health.
There are no drugs that will increase male
sexual desire (despite what the snakeoil
salesmen will tell you) except perhaps
alcohol but it can also cause sexual
dysfunction. As for hynosis, you could
try it but your problem is physical, no
psychological so it's doubtful hypnosis
will help.
