I am going so crazy right now. I just
want to doing it cry my heart out to
someone. But all I got well feels
like..Is my self. My boyfriend isn't
being there for me like he should....He
says "i dont care" thats his theory. I am
losing my sister over her stupid crack
addiction but they are now finally getting
help but they are moving 2 hours away and
im terrified i'll never see my
niece/nephews again. My brother is having
stupid problems and dont know what they
are but aren't returning phone calls. My
other brother is going to jail for 45 days
then signing up for the army. I just dont
know what to do. Its driving me insane.
I thought I would always have someone at
my side to help me through this or any
kind of problem I would have. I tried
using my boyfriends sister as an example
but he says " I dont see them so I would
not care and it would not bother me" I
told him once it happened it would and he
still says the same doing it thing. :(
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :( I just
feel that my feelings my problems aren't
important to him but if he had some major
problems he would expect me to be there
for him. But see he isn't really the
point. I just dont know what to do on
handling this all at once. Its been hit
in like 2 days. Bam might lose my nieces
bam they are moving may not see them even
befor that bam brother 1 jail/ then army
bam brother 2 might be moving farther away
and wont speak to us at all. I am so
lost. I need some one to just talk to
when I need it. My mom isn't to good to
talk to right now kuz she going threw same
as me....So thats not to helpful...Jus I
need a person to be able to talk to
whenever! Please write me back soon!
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brookster29
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 28 Location: ,
Posted: 08-10-06 00:16am
The worst thing you can do is stress
yourself out about it. Sit back and think
logically about how you can help or solve
these situations. About your neices and
nephews..Two hours isn't a whole lot. You
could hopefully visit them as much as
possible and theres always the telephone,
e-mail, instant message...All that. About
your brother who is going to jail then
into the army. Think of it this way,
being in the army he has a chance to do
something productive for himself and his
country. Its a very brave and patriotic
thing and you should be very proud that
he's taking this chance to turn his life
around. I guess I dont know if his life
was going the wrong direction to begin
with, but if he's going to jail for 45
days, you know something is up. Just
relax, step back and take a look at things
and you will feel better. It always helps
me. Goodluck!
