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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004
Posts: 229
Location: In the 'Tweens
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Lets Clear the Air...
Posted: 01-19-04 14:31pm
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I am sorry that some of you or your
families have been screwed over by dancers
sometime in your life, but please don’t
let that cloud your judgment about me. I
am not dancing to “steal your husband” or
the “steal your money”. I do it to
support my 3 children and that’s it. And
when I started school in the spring I will
be well on my way, but until then this is
what I am choosing to do. I am not a bad
person or a bad mother. If you take the
time to actually get to know me, then you
will see that!
Danielle
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 811
Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
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Posted: 01-19-04 14:37pm
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Dont worry hunni we think no less of you
just because of your occupation!!!!!! I
danced at the bar last summer it was fun
and I enjoyed it! It was great!!!!!! I
only did it for a little while for some
extra cash so we could buy the car quicker
but i'd do it again if I had to theres
nothin wrong with it. ~melissa
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004
Posts: 229
Location: In the 'Tweens
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Posted: 01-19-04 14:42pm
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Thank you, I just wanted to make sure that
you all know, that I am not a heartless
health forum and I understand that some of
these men have wives, I do. But I am not
making them come in there. They do it on
their own and I don’t know what to say
except that they should let their wives
know whats going on, but the club I dance
for so is exclusive that if anything
“fishy” was going on they would be booted.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 01-19-04 14:44pm
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Hey. I think what you do is ok, I guess.
I mean I like to see male dancers and im
married so it shoulnd be bad the other way
around. Although I would beat up jose if
he ever went to one of those. Oh well
thats just me! Welcome to the boards
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 01-19-04 14:48pm
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Theres nothing wrong with what you do.
Some people may see it that way (everyone
has their own opinion) but at least ur
making money and your supporting your
family and thats better than nothing, so
dont be ashamed! Besides, its quite fun
to do sometimes! Lol!
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003
Posts: 309
Location: colorado
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Posted: 01-19-04 14:48pm
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Why did someone say something to you to
offend you? I never thought about it--
we all have different ways of making are
family work-- I dont think any less of
you-- I just couldnt do it my self-- but
who sadi something about it to you? 
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004
Posts: 229
Location: In the 'Tweens
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Posted: 01-19-04 16:10pm
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Its really not important who offened me
because we already discussed it and fixed
our problem. I just wanted to make sure
that my job didn't offend anyone else!
Thanks for the support and concern ladies!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 01-19-04 16:12pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-04-04 12:21pm; edited 1 time in total
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004
Posts: 229
Location: In the 'Tweens
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Posted: 01-19-04 16:17pm
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I know you didn't! I accept your apology,
I hope you do know that! I just wanted to
make sure everyone else knows that not
every dancer is the same, just like the
earlier sanerio I gave you. I also
understand that not everyone can accept
what I do, and I am fine with that, I just
want them to accept me for a good person
and a good mother that I try so hard to
be! Just like you, you seem to be a great
mom and I know you must work real hard,
because I know raising 3 kids is tough!
Anyway that is my only point! 
danielle
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 01-19-04 17:15pm
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R u like a pole dancer or something?
I missed this..............
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Yazmine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2003
Posts: 156
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Posted: 01-19-04 19:08pm
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I thinks its fine...As long as u stay away
from drugs and dont bring ur work home (if
u kno wat I mean)...Not that u would, u
seem like such a sweetie who just wants
the best 4 her kids!!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 01-19-04 21:25pm
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If you do your job, do it good, and do it
cleanly..... No one has a reason to say
anything to you about it! You can be a
dancer, stripper, or quite a few other
things and yet still be a good mother,
wife, daughter, aunt, sister, etc.......
Don't do it the trashy way, do it the
clean way though.....
We all are very accepting here.
Love,
chanda
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004
Posts: 229
Location: In the 'Tweens
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Posted: 01-19-04 23:32pm
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Yes liz, that would be another name for
it. All my dance routines are very clean
and sensual. None of them are sleazy,
etc. I do want whats best for my children
and yes I would be very sad if my baby
girl told me that she wanted to be a
dancer. But for right now, this is what I
need to do to raise my babies. Heres the
thing, I danced from the age of 16 to 19.
I got married at 19 years old, to dayton
and yvonna’s daddy and quit dancing. Less
than 11 months ago, my husband (their
father) was killed in an accident cause by
a drunk driver. I quit school temporarily
and began dancing again. So that is why I
am dancing now. In the spring once I have
saved up enough money to pay for all my
schooling, I am going to go back to school
and quit dancing. Well that is my plan,
hopefully I can pull it off. But yeah I
mean yvonna was only a week old when her
daddy was taken dayton was only 2 and
camden, my eldest, lost the only dad he
ever knew, so it was tough and I knew with
dancing that I wouldn’t have to be away
from them for long amounts of time and the
money would be great. So that’s the long
version. So thanks again for the support
ladies!
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