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deedee08
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Im Scared That I Could Be Pregnant! Please Help Someone!
Posted: 08-06-06 16:54pm
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Me and my bf were both virgins and we had
sex one day for about two min he took it
out b/c he said he felt it coming. Then
he said it wasn't so he sticked it in for
about 3 more minutes then I told him to
stop b/c he wasn't wearing a condom. He
said ok so I just gave him a handjob and
the sperm came out like 5 minutes later.
Is there still a chance that the sperm
could have gotten inside? Could I still
be pregnant? I started my period the next
day but my period usually last 2 or 3
days. Then we had sex on the 4th day
after I started my period because I
thought I was done he wore a condom this
time. I noticed that there was blood on
my panties but maybe it was b/c I wasn't
fully off my period. Could I still be
pregnant? Someone please reply. I need
to talk to someone. :(
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jaime_elms
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Posted: 08-06-06 18:00pm
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Yes pre cum. When he is inside u... U
should always make sure ur on bc, and he
is wearing a condom... No matter if he
has come or not u can still get pregnant,
take preg test
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deedee08
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Posted: 08-07-06 12:14pm
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Thanx so much for telling me what u think,
but like I said would it make any
difference if I started my period the next
day? I mean I know u can get pregnant at
any time but what r the chances of me
getting pregnant if I had it the day
before my period? Is there a high chance?
I took a pregnancy test ept or something
like that, it came out negative but maybe
its too early to know. For some reason I
have been feeling my stomach pretty tight
like a tummy ache but maybe its b/c I am
stressing myself over it too much. I dont
know what I should do if I am! I also
talked to someone at planned parenthood
and they told me that I really shouldn't
worry about anything because I had sex the
day before my period. I asked her how
sure she was and she said 99% sure. But
there is always that 1% chance that it
could be a lie. Well g2g please reply.
Thanx so much.
Diana
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r0k1t
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Posted: 08-07-06 12:43pm
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I had unprotected sex twice (recently) and
I know what how you feel about perhaps
being pregnant. The most you can do right
now is to wait and try to be calm about
it. If you stress too much, you can end
up causing your body to become sick or
tired, which can make you think you're
pregnant when you really might not be.
From what I understand, wait a week and
take another pregnancy test; sperm can
live up to five days and it might take
several days before sperm reaches its
destination. In my opinion, I don't think
you're pregnant but there is always a
slight chance that you could be (i'm not a
doctor, so don't quote me). Just try not
to stress about it and if you're super
worried, maybe you should go to the
doctor.
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deedee08
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Posted: 08-08-06 13:16pm
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Thank you for ur opinion it really helps
but can too much stress make u feel like
ur pregnant? I keep getting abdominal
pains they feel like period cramps its
horrible! Or maybe its because I like to
work out a lot. I run 3 to 4 miles daily.
Im only 16 so even if I wanted to go to
the doc I cant cause my parents don't know
about it. Tell me the truth and be
honest. Is there a high chance of getting
pregnant one day before ur period? What
about one day after ur period? Im like so
worried. I feel so stressed out right now
I dont know what to do. Besides the whole
idea of thinking im pregnant I have so
much english 3 ap hw and ap us history,
and chem b/c I start school on august
23!!! I cant concentrate on anything. Im
so scared if im not pregnant im probably
gonna start my period late 4 stressing out
2 much. Thanx so much for ur opinion
really I mean it. I don't know who to
talk to right now. When did u say I
should take the pregnancy test again? I
took one a week after I had it which was
this monday. It came out negative but it
is possible that its too soon to know.
Anyways.... Thank u so much please
reply to my ?'s im so curious to know.
When I say thanx I really mean it.
Diana
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Posted: 08-08-06 13:42pm
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You are not pregnant, having a period is
not indicative of pregnancy. 99% is
nearly as 'effective' as the birth control
pill - so stop worrying yourself.
If you have access to a planned parenthood
(you said you talked to someone there) you
should go get some birth control
information from them. Your parents never
have to know and it is free. Being safe
is better than what you are going
through.
Also, there are other things - besides
just pregnancy - that you want to protect
yourself from. Like sexually transmitted
diseases. Be careful with your body. It
is the only one you get.
Get some condoms. Never, ever let anyone
touch you without a condom.
Thos are free at planned parenthood too!
Good luck in school and stop worrying.
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deedee08
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Posted: 08-08-06 21:16pm
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Thanx so much!!!! I really mean it. I
have one more ?. What are the chances of
getting pregnant one day after ur period?
Anyway what kind of bc do you suggest I
get? Should I still get a pregancy test?
I mean I know the chances r slim but
should I still get it? I mean because I
keep getting abdominal pain, like a knot
in my tummy and I also feel like I have to
throw up I know its not nausea, should I
be worried? It could be b/c of the stress
right? I try not to think of the fact
that I could be pregnant but I know its
always in the back of my head and I know
that im probably gonna start my period
late(if I start it) b/c stress causes a
women to start her period late. Can u get
the symptoms of pregnancy this early?
Tummy pain, nausea, or could it be that
since I know the symtoms of pregnancy I
make myself believe that I could be
pregnant when im really not? Well I
would really appreciate it if you answered
back and thank u so much for ur oppinion
it really helps I really needed someone to
talk to I don't want to talk to my mom
about this b/c she would kill me and I
don't even want to think about what my
daddy would do. I love my family and
hopefully i'll get a second chance to be
better protected. Me and my bf had sex
after this but he used a condom this time
so I felt so much better. Thanx again.
Diana
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deedee08
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Posted: 08-10-06 09:34am
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Could I still be pregnant though cause I
felt a little constipated and I took
laxatives? I dont feel nauseous anymore.
My breast are fine. How far in pregnancy
does constipatin occur? Im so scared
right now. I really dont want to be
pregnant. I haven't gained any weight.
Can stress cause constipation? Please
reply I really need to talk to someone.
Diana
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-10-06 13:10pm
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Stress can cause constipation; in me,
stress causes slight diahrreah! Please go
get a pregnancy test, I know it's
absolutely terrifying (i am sort of
in your position right now, except that
i'm on the pills, had a mess up, and have
gotten two periods but i'm still terrified
I might be pregnant). I haven't gotten up
the courage to buy one myself. It will
ease your fears, or confirm them so you
can move on to the next step and cope with
it instead of being in limbo!
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Posted: 08-11-06 02:12am
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| deedee08
wrote: | what are the chances of
getting pregnant one day after ur period?
Diana |
extremely slim, although it's always
possible. The most fetile time period is
mid way through your cycle and a few days
either way (as sperm can live for up to
5days inside the female body).
I would seriously consider getting
yourself on some birth control, as well as
using condoms, just for piece of mind.
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deedee08
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Posted: 08-11-06 14:31pm
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Thanx so much I really needed someones
advice, I know stress can make u feel like
ur pregnant but ur really not, I was
talking to my bf and she said I need to
take my mind off of things, I just keep
getting the butterflies. My tummy feels
so tight, I feel constipated and I also
keep feeling like I got to throw up but I
really don't its like every time I think
about it I feel sick. What should I do?
Diana
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-14-06 21:22pm
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I feel sick every time I think about it
too, so please have the courage I don't
have and go get tested!
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deedee08
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Posted: 08-24-06 15:02pm
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Thanx so much to every one but I had sex
again this time it was protected and it
was 3 days after my period. He told me
the condom broke but I remember he changed
it immediately he hadn't busted yet
though, it has been two weeks since that
happened and I took a pregnancy test 2
weeks and three days later, it came out
negative do u think I couold still be
pregnant? I had sex 2 weeks after my
period the condom didn't break though I
was still afraid so I took a 72 emergency
contraception pill which can make you get
a period early. I kinda started a period,
it only lasted 2 days though. Can it be
spotting? Do u think I could still be
pregnant? I havent had sex in 2 weeks
cause I want to be sure.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 08-24-06 16:01pm
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.O.M.G! When you have sex there is always
a chance of pregnancy.If you are so
worried about becoming pregnant,stop
having sex all together until you are old
enough to handle the outcome.You can get
pregnant from pre cum also.Get educated on
sex before you do it anymore please! Your
period can be meesed up by taking the
morning after pill and wil either take a
while to get back to normal,or it may
never be normal again
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-24-06 22:43pm
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Or, she could get on birth control pills
and then she wouldn't have to obstain, you
people seem to forget that option. There
is another choice besides pregnancy and
abstinance! However, yes, education is
important. You can get birth control
pills for free or cheap.
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keloidgoaway
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Posted: 08-25-06 01:40am
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| deedee08
wrote: | | thank you for ur opinion it
really helps but can too much stress make
u feel like ur pregnant? I keep getting
abdominal pains they feel like period
cramps its horrible! Or maybe its
because I like to work out a lot. I run
3 to 4 miles daily. Im only 16 so even
if I wanted to go to the doc I cant cause
my parents don't know about it. Tell me
the truth and be honest. Is there a high
chance of getting pregnant one day before
ur period? What about one day after ur
period? Im like so worried. I feel so
stressed out right now I dont know what to
do. Besides the whole idea of thinking
im pregnant I have so much english 3 ap
hw and ap us history, and chem b/c I start
school on august 23!!! I cant
concentrate on anything. Im so scared if
im not pregnant im probably gonna start my
period late 4 stressing out 2 much.
Thanx so much for ur opinion really I mean
it. I don't know who to talk to right
now. When did u say I should take the
pregnancy test again? I took one a week
after I had it which was this monday. It
came out negative but it is possible that
its too soon to know. Anyways....
Thank u so much please reply to my ?'s im
so curious to know. When I say thanx I
really mean it.
Diana |
it always happens when
you think you are pregnant and its just a
period.. ;(.. Well the best time to take
the test is when you missed your period..
If you wait 2 weeks the results will be a
higher chance of pregnancy. Im a nurse..
;)
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