''i Already Have a Boyfriend'' Posted: 08-08-06 11:33am
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 08-08-06 12:15pm
Hi there! Going to a club and asking a
girl if they find you attractive or
whatever seems a little strange. How far
away does this girl live, sometimes the
long distance relationships do work and
thir are times that one or the other is
willing to re-locate, if they really care
and who cares about the past it is only
the present and the future you need to be
concerned about. Don'y try to rush things
if it is meant to be things will happen if
not they wont. You will find someone out
their that is right for you just be
careful but relax and have a good time.
All the best!
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jimmyeth
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2006 Posts: 22
Posted: 08-08-06 13:54pm
Yeh, I guess im not very experienced in
the chatting up field, its just sometimes
I like to get feedback off of women on
what they think of my looks, guess it
raises my confidence a bit. This girl
who lives far away lives about 200 miles
id say roughly. She made out with other
guys when I first met her, then I invited
her down to my 18th party and she made out
with one of my friends which upset me :( .
She also lied to me about her age(and
wouldnt tell me why) so I really dont
think she could be trusted. She doesnt
feel the same way about me as I do as her
and she just sees me as a friend I think
because of the distance.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 08-08-06 14:45pm
No, that is one long distance thing I
would not go for because to me trust in a
relationship is #1 to me. If that is hoow
you like to communicate then go for it.
Please don't take me wrong, I was not
trying to judge you, we are all different
and have our different ways!
Someone is out there for you, you are
still young!
All the best to you!
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Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 60
Posted: 08-09-06 19:11pm
Stay away from her...She's kissing
any/every guy she see's, you should know
what "other" things she does with them
besides making out.
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HappyBaby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2006 Posts: 119 Location: UK
Posted: 08-11-06 03:44am
If you ask girls whether they find you
attractive it just comes across as being
really desperate and that is a huge turn
off for women. I'm not saying you have
to be all macho and arrogant because that
is just as horrible but perhaps you need
to tone it down a bit.
You sound just like my first boyfriend I
had when I was 16 - he was 17. Lots of
things you say sound just like he was.
He was a lovely bloke - still is -
although I don't really see him much any
more. He was awkward around women and
very shy and not confident about his
looks. In the end, that was what broke
us up - I got fed up with constantly
having to reassure him that he was
attractive etc. Hey, I was only a
teenager myself so perhaps I didn't have
as much patience as I should have.
Anyway, my point is that he is now 27
years old and has had loads of lovely
girlfriends. He is now happily living
with a girlfriend. So don't worry too
much - you will meet someone nice when the
time is right. As for the girl you
mentioned...Stay away. You deserve
better than that.
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raziel1687
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2006 Posts: 33 Location: Florida
Posted: 08-11-06 05:25am
Asking a chick if your attractive is the
dumbest thing a guy can do! Why do guys
do that? It's so stupid, I hate it when
they do that, no need to offend you, but
it is. Either they will lie to spare your
feelings, or they will tell the possible
harsh truth that "no, they don't..." (like
I do, I tell it up straight) and might
even call you ugly. But they could be
tellin the truth, but that's less likely.
Since to me only about 10% or less of guys
in general are even attractive at all. I
say quit worrying about yourself and seem
intersted in the girls and what they do
and don't ask about what they think of
you, tell them what you think of them, how
beautiful, and whatever they are, girls
love that... And it's always a rule, you
should never try to go for someone more
attractive than you, or else it would
definitely be harder to get them. And
maybe you shouldn't try looking for one.
Just the girls you come across if you like
any of them, try to get to know them.
Don't be so desperate, be confident, and
there is tons of boyless girls out there
that really want a boyfriend, so if you
want to keep looking, they are out there.
(like me.......Jk......Sort of)
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jimmyeth
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2006 Posts: 22
Posted: 08-11-06 12:07pm
Hey thanks for the replys and advice, yeh
I suppose I need to change my ways and try
be more confident. Its just it makes me
feel a bit pressured because most of my
other friends seem to manage in this
field, oh well I guess i'll just have to
wait and see what happens.
