I'm New! And In Need of Help~ :) Posted: 08-08-06 20:36pm
Hello everyone! I'm new, my name is
renee and well...I'm only 15 and a half.
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a
year and I must say, I feel mature beyond
my years. Perhaps that's why I thought
it would be safe for us to have sex.
He's been so good to me and I wanted it as
well, you know? :oops:
we were having unprotected sex one night,
and he pulled out of me (as hes always
done...Never once otherwise) but much of
his sperm landed around my vaginal area.
I stress though, that he was not inside of
me...Or even near the opening, but some
may have landed there.
My period is somewhat irregular. Since
summer started, and my schedule became
much more relaxed, I began having my
periods around the beggining of every
month ( like some of my friends). We had
sex on the 28th of july and it is now
august 8th. I'm used to getting periods
aroudn the 2nd...And I know my periods
have a chance of changing each month.
But this seems like a long time for me and
i'm very concerned.
I've been completely stressed out about
it, and I know this can cause delayed
periods...And even symtoms of pregnancy.
I will take the test and if worse comes to
worse, I may decide to take the pill.
But I really want everyones oppinion ont
he situation.
What is the more likely cause of my
delayed period (or missed...)? I don't
seem to have many other symtoms except
perhaps tender breasts, but I heard that
is also a sign of a coming period.
I know I may seem very newbie-ish and
stupid, but i'm so worried :(
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 08-08-06 21:22pm
Pulling out isn't exactly a method of
birth control. You can get pregnant off
of pre-cum as well. And your bf will
never know when he does that as they can't
feel it. So you may want to test for
pregnancy if you don't get your period in
the next couple of weeks. It would be a
bit early to be having any symptoms I
believe. Keep us updated, and welcome to
the board.
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Muavesque
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Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 3
Posted: 08-08-06 21:45pm
Thankyou very much for reading my post,
and offering your oppinion. I'll
definitly be taking the test soon if I
don't get my period. If anyone has ever
taken an abortion pill, i'd like to hear
opinions on that as well..-_-
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 08-09-06 01:01am
Well theres such thing as pre cum,so you
would have to be worried about
that.Well,if I were you I would take a
home pregnancy test.&& youll see
from there what you should do.Hey,im only
16 witha 3 month old baby boy.Fill free to
ask me any questions.Keep me updated.
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Muavesque
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Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 3
Posted: 08-09-06 03:40am
Oh yeah most definitly I will take it
within the next week or so. :) I try not
to be overly worried about it in case the
stress is whats really effecting me! :(
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Becky
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Posted: 08-09-06 05:17am
Just to add I got pregnant with the pull
out method. I wouldn't recommend it
unless you don't mind having a baby
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 08-09-06 07:46am
The pullout method is obviously not a good
way to go cause there is precum in it.You
may be pregnant so go get tested!!!