Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, even
when i'm incredibly turned on, my vagina
dries out and he has to pull out and
re-lube multiple times during the act. It
sucks it all up like a sponge...And then
15 minutes after we're done just drains
out. Disgusting I know. (by the way, i'm
on bc and we always use condoms too) we've
been having sex for 6 months now, but it
still hurts sometimes when he first puts
it in. Any thoughts why? Am I just not
turned on enough. And any thoughts why my
vagina acts like a sponge and disrupts my
sex life!? Some insight would be nice :)
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dannysgirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2006 Posts: 23 Location: CA
Posted: 08-10-06 00:43am
I've heard of vaginal dryness... I think
you can get something to help that at a
drugstore. That should work :)
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Crazyness24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2006 Posts: 179 Location: Jersey
Posted: 08-10-06 13:10pm
Well it is strange because usually birth
control can do that. I don't think its
anything bad, you may just need to be more
stimulated. What helps me is I do use ky
jelly, I rub it on before intercourse,
then I have him lay behind me while we are
on our sides and he starts kissing my neck
and rubbing my clit. Then when you feel
his dick pushing up against you ass you'll
get really turned on. It always works for
me. Also have him do oral on you anything
like that will get you really wet. If you
worried see a gyno but sometimes women
just have to deal with this stuff :(
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brookster29
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 28 Location: ,
Posted: 08-13-06 01:23am
Thanks guys. I'm going to try getting a
little more turned on before we just start
going at it. I think that will help. And
if it continues i'll definitely check out
some sort of vaginal dryness product that
might help.