Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 2 Location: staffordshire
I Think She As Gone Off Me Posted: 08-10-06 06:01am
Me and my partner have been together for
15 years and I love her to bits and we
have two kids 10 and 13 we are just an
average happy family getting on with
life.
The problem is our sex life we dont seem
to have one before our youngest child we
were at it at least once a week now when
we do have sex I feel as if she only does
it to stop me moaning, believe me I have
tryed everything to put the spark back in
our relationship I love her so much and
she no's it we just seem so incompatible I
have a high sex drive and she as a low sex
drive. I am not just been a typical man I
love and respect her but I am at my witts
end and I am getting thaughts off playing
away wich I hopefully wont as I have a lot
to loose and above all dont want to hurt
anyone and rip my family apart
please any help advice welcome
regards paul
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 387 Location: Canada
Posted: 08-10-06 07:57am
Yeah, 15 years is a long
time............It's hard not to get into
the dull boring routine of life. Well you
suggest that you might perhaps stray?!
Why not try this? Alot of times we start
to take each other for granted whether we
realize it or not........So..........Treat
her like she's the "other woman" ....Ie
brand new in your life............Now you
got to impress this new woman, what do
guys do?
Dress to the nines, cologne, sexy
undies(throw out the tighty whities),
listen with great interest in everything
she says, dates, dates must have dates,
call just to say "i love you" or "i miss
you so much", bring small
gifts.........Throw in little mind
benders...............
............Just so happens that my beau
get ho*ny as he** whenever there's a full
moon........Always think about him when I
see one............While driving home from
work last night, look up and lo and
behold....What's up in the sky.......A
huge bright full moon.............Almost
drove off the road.
If all else fails there's always
counselling........Don't wait for it to
get worse.....Needs work now. :)
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 214 Location: Australia
Posted: 02-11-07 22:45pm
spirit
wrote:
yeah, 15 years is a long
time............It's hard not to get into
the dull boring routine of life. Well
you suggest that you might perhaps stray?!
Why not try this? Alot of times we start
to take each other for granted whether we
realize it or not........So..........Treat
her like she's the "other woman" ....Ie
brand new in your life............Now you
got to impress this new woman, what do
guys do?
Dress to the nines, cologne, sexy
undies(throw out the tighty whities),
listen with great interest in everything
she says, dates, dates must have dates,
call just to say "i love you" or "i miss
you so much", bring small
gifts.........Throw in little mind
benders...............
............Just so happens that my beau
get ho*ny as he** whenever there's a full
moon........Always think about him when I
see one............While driving home from
work last night, look up and lo and
behold....What's up in the sky.......A
huge bright full moon.............Almost
drove off the road.
If all else fails there's always
counselling........Don't wait for it to
get worse.....Needs work now.
what sort of advice is, why not trying an
affair?!?!?! If you were my man and you
did that, you would have more than limited
sex to deal with, you would also have
divorce papers!! Straying wont solve your
problems, it will only create more! Have
you tried sitting down and talking to her
about how you feel?? Maybe she needs to
know how you feel??? If you love and
respect her as much as much as you say you
do, you wont stray!
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