oh_mommy
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Holy Cow
Posted: 08-10-06 12:54pm
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Man, my belly has just been expanding like
a balloon latily.. And I cant stay
comfertable that long anymore either
*sigh*... Im getting sick of having a big
belly too.. I wanna be my skinny self and
wear my normal summer clothes and run
around... I'm also getting very
impatient I want to meet my little man
sooo badly... Gahh... I wish it was
november so I could have my lil man and
start working on my stomach... I just
hope it dosnt get alot of streach marks..
So far I dont have a single mark!! Woo
hoo.. But some people are telling me
sometimes you dont get any marks till
after the baby is out.. That is scaring
me..
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 08-10-06 14:18pm
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Very true..I bragged about not having
strech marks..And I went a week late and
like two days before I went into the
hospital they just starting popping
up..Although I only have a few ..And they
are hardly noticable ..Just dont brag to
soon :)..Cause those little boogers will
come out of nowhere and surprise you..
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 08-10-06 14:29pm
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Mine only appeared 2 days after trey was
born but they're barely noticeable now.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 08-10-06 14:58pm
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Man,i think i'm gonna have monsterous
marks!Both my sister had them bad. Did
you gus work out at all?
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 08-10-06 15:02pm
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Haha work out?...Nnoooo I ate tons of food
my whole pregnancy...And gained only like
23 or 24 pounds my whole pregnancy...But
afterwards I didnt have time to work
out..Dealing and getting use to the new
addition...And I was a single mom for the
first four months..--but my weight went
back down by itself ...I now weigh like
5-7pounds more...But that dont bother me..
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ThriftyGal
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Joined: 21 Apr 2006 Posts: 2982 Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 08-10-06 15:33pm
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Yeah this is one of the thoughts i'm most
preoccupied with, getting thin again after
the baby, and hoping I don't get stretch
marks.
I'm going to be a single mom and I doubt
i'll find time for myself to try to fix my
body... Though i'm hoping breast feeding
and veganism will help me get a bit of the
weight off and my old body back... I'm
really sick of my pregnancy body too, I
just feel nasty like a cow and most my old
clothes I can't comfortable fit into
anymore. It just makes me feel
disgusting and ugly and makes me not even
want to go out unless it's some place I
can just wear sweats to. Apparently
breast feeding helps you get your old body
back faster.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 08-10-06 15:52pm
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Well not to burst anyones bubble..But you
will never get your old body back..And I
know it sucks to hear that but its the
truth...I was also the same way when I was
pregnant---wishing to be small again and
all that..Which I only weigh 5-7 pounds
more ..But weight isnt the only thing that
changes when you pregnant..I can also feel
a difference just by bending down and
things like that...Your whole body works
in a different way after having a
baby...My periods are much worse,my back
starts hurting faster,i get headaches
easily,i get tired faster..Things like
that i've noticed since having jace..I got
strech marks at the very end of my
pregnancy but now they have faded and
arent easily seen..But still me knowing
that they are there bothers me ..Because I
was so use to having that perfect
body--haha but not now!
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ThriftyGal
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Joined: 21 Apr 2006 Posts: 2982 Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 08-10-06 15:58pm
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I think most girls just want to look as
good as they can after pregnancy.
Nothing wrong with that. I'm sure most
don't expect to go back to exactly how
they were before, but just look the best
that they can achieve.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 08-10-06 16:05pm
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Well actually alot of girls think they can
go back to the exact same..Because I sure
thought I would..But thats just a joke to
me now..
I just think its a let down to some when
they dont look the same..But I was just
stating that it will never be the
same..Although you can look good after
having a baby--it just takes time and
exercise..And when you have a newborn and
you are single ..Like in my case for the
first four months...Its really
hard..Finding time for yourself..So that
would be my reason for not losing all the
weight..But like I said it doesnt bother
me being a few pounds over the weight I
was before jace...But its just depends on
the type of person you are...If you are
lazy then your going to stay big...And if
you are willing to be active and try
..Then more than likely you will get back
down to your normal weight...Just like I
told my friend who had a baby and is still
sort of big..She asked me how I got back
down and I told her straight up..It takes
time and work...Its simple to say and hard
to do:)
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babyrae
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Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 08-10-06 16:22pm
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Actually, my body looked a lot better
after I had my daughter, mainly becuz I
actually started to take care of myself
and try to make my body nicer. I was
pre-pregnancy weight again after my
daughter and I actually toned up and
looked nicer.
I got 3 stretchmarks on each hip. They
went away (i used a massage technique) but
my sis got them reaaally bad so even
though your sis got em bad doesn't mean
that you will. It all depends on your
skin and how much weight you gain and what
not.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 08-10-06 16:31pm
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Okay some of you are taking my post
wrong...What I mean by your body will
never be the same..Im not meaning it cant
look the same...Im saying that it will
never feel or work the same..Because
having a baby does a big number on your
body...Not saying everyone feels like sh*t
after a baby just saying that I find
things have changed since I had my son..
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Ingi
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Posted: 08-10-06 16:42pm
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I grew when I was pregnant. Like about an
inch! And, maybe because of my age or
whatever, but my feet also grew about a
half a size and stayed that way. So it
wasn't just 'swelling'.
It is true, your body is rarely the same.
Even if you lose all the weight, you may
not ever fit into those size 4's because
your hips will naturally be larger (due to
having a baby shoved through them). Also?
Whether you breast feed or not, your
boobs are going to be saggy and softer.
Just the facts ;) babies are worth it
though. ;)
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
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Posted: 08-11-06 00:13am
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Haha true true true about the boobs...Yuck
I hate that..They are so much different
looking and feelings...I seriously would
love that to change but the only way that
will ever happen is if I did plastic
surgery..Which I would probably wait for
that because I dont want to end up
pregnant again and they go back to flab..
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
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Re: Holy Cow
Posted: 08-11-06 00:16am
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| oh_mommy
wrote: | | man, my belly has just been
expanding like a balloon latily.. And I
cant stay comfertable that long anymore
either *sigh*... Im getting sick of
having a big belly too.. I wanna be my
skinny self and wear my normal summer
clothes and run around... I'm also
getting very impatient I want to meet my
little man sooo badly... Gahh... I
wish it was november so I could have my
lil man and start working on my stomach...
I just hope it dosnt get alot of streach
marks.. So far I dont have a single
mark!! Woo hoo.. But some people are
telling me sometimes you dont get any
marks till after the baby is out.. That
is scaring
me.. |
use lots of cocoa butter or shea butter.
Get vitamin e capsules, break them, and
rub the oil on your thighs, breasts, and
arms. I have never been pregnant but I
did lose a great deal of weight when I was
16. Seven years later I still have some
scarring from them but they are less
noticable than back then.
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 2322 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 08-11-06 00:32am
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Not to brag or anything, but my body
hasn't changed since my kids. I also
never got but 1 tiny stretch mark. I
consider myself really lucky, it could
have something to do with only gaining
15lbs with both of my pregnancies
though.
I used cocoa butter and it worked great on
me.
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 08-11-06 02:09am
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Yeah.. I dont care about gaining any
weight.. I was only 80-something lbs when
I got pregnant, and im 100lbs now so its
going good.. I just want a flat stomach
again lol.. .. Is there actually
anything that works for streachmark
prevention or is it all a bunch of money
grabbing scams?
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
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Posted: 08-11-06 06:17am
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| oh_mommy
wrote: | | yeah.. I dont care about
gaining any weight.. I was only
80-something lbs when I got pregnant, and
im 100lbs now so its going good.. I just
want a flat stomach again lol.. .. Is
there actually anything that works for
streachmark prevention or is it all a
bunch of money grabbing
scams? |
nothing will prevent
them.Some people just get lucky and don't
get stretch marks.You just have to deal
with them if you get em
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