My boyfriend and I have been together for
over 3 years now. He got into this
business with his cusin and now im feeling
like he spends more time with cusin and
his co-workers, and doesnt really care
about me anymore.... Its like all he
talks about it is his business he is
starting and asks my opinion on what the
name should be ect.... I mean I dont have
one convo with him not talking about the
business! Im just getting sick of it and
I want time just for me and him to talk.
Even when he took me out to a nice lunch
he got on the phone and was talking to one
of his co-workers and totally forgot about
me...
I guess im getting jelous. He now works
with tons of beautiful girls trying to get
a singing career started and I feel like
omg is he going to cheat or is he going to
do this or that.
I know I might be over doing it... But im
scared of loosing him.
Thanks for the advice!
Rachel
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Kgirl16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2005 Posts: 135 Location: Canada
Posted: 08-15-06 22:54pm
He's probably just very excited of getting
his business going, and still loves you
just as much.
It's the old "taking those around me for
granted" syndrome. You've been together
for 3 years, he probably feels secure and
safe and thinks "yeahhhh I don't need to
try as hard anymore" which is complete
caca :p. He can not take you for granted,
ask him soon if there is maybe just some
time you guys could spend alone
together.
I doubt he'll cheat on you, I can't give
you reasons why, other than if he's still
with you and starting a business, he's
keeping you in his plans.
How long has this business thing been
going on for?
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Cha-Cha
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 May 2006 Posts: 151
Posted: 08-16-06 21:29pm
Along time! Its a new record label... So
they are getting rappers/singers. I mean
im just scared thats all. I had
experience last time he went away on
business.... I know he wont cheat he
loves me... And I love him... Its scary
because its different.