Joined: 12 Aug 2006 Posts: 3 Location: los Angeles
Why Are Getting Pregnant So Soon? Posted: 08-12-06 07:29am
I have 3 children I have a 3 year old
girl, a 2 year old boy and another a 1
year old boy and I love them to death,i
seriously don't think I could live without
them, but now I realize that I become a
mom too soon.I am married I just wish I
would of known what married life was
before children.I know a lot of girls my
age that have just 1 baby and they hoped
that they would of waited a couple of
years.I mean my advice is if you don't
have a plce of your own your not ready for
a baby no offense to anyone i'm pretty
sure it's hard having a baby and having to
deal with others evev harder ,just think
about it girls and all you other mommies
and future young mom's just give your baby
all the loved that you can seriously give
to another human being and take good
care........
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6225 Location: London, England
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Posted: 08-12-06 15:23pm
I am similar to you. I have a 17 month
baby girl, a 7 month baby boy and a
pregnant with no.3. I am married also but
I honestly don't think you are ever
prepared for a baby. Me and my hubby had
been together for 4 years and married for
2 when I had my first and it was still a
shock and I felt that my freedom had been
took away.
I think everyone gets times like that no
matter what your age as the reality is
that you aren't just to free to do what
you want to do anymore and that is true
whatever your age.
I think its pretty common sense that you
need a place of your own. Most the
regular girls on this forum are very
responsible and put thier kids first so I
don't really think your post is relevant
to us.
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maritza
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Joined: 12 Aug 2006 Posts: 3 Location: los Angeles
Posted: 08-12-06 16:33pm
Were I live I see lots and lots of teenage
mom's who live their parents or the guys
parents and its good the girls in here in
here aren't in those situations,but I know
the parents just want to help their
children ofcourse and a lot of parents
shouldn't really have to deal with it.
Anyways my point is you never know who
might feel the same.I've also been asked
how do you know your ready to have
children I say ofcourse what u said that
ur never ready but you know I have a
daughter and I know howhard it is so young
and with so much responsibilities and i've
had people do their stupid remareks even
though I think i'm a good mom.I wouldn't
want my daughter to be so young and go
through what i've gone through.So if you
think this topic isn't for you than go
right ahead to the other topic.
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6225 Location: London, England
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Posted: 08-12-06 17:08pm
I understand your comments (except the
attitude at the end) but this is a support
forum. We don't take kindly to people
coming on here and lecturing us thank you
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maritza
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2006 Posts: 3 Location: los Angeles
Posted: 08-12-06 17:48pm
Ok,i admit when i'm wrong I thought I
could write down my feelings sort of thing
I take back what I said its just I was
just writing what i've been seeing here a
lot but I its cool that you help each
other out.I felt like you were attacking
my feelings.I m not a negative person.I'm
sorry again.
