I Am Pregnant And the Father of My Baby Is So Scared! Posted: 08-19-03 10:44am
I am pregnant, and I just graudated high
school. Everything was going good for me,
I was execpted to college and my boyfriend
was determine to graudate and go to
college. It needs up like are dreams are
blown away. I don't know why he is so
scared of me being pregnant because I
think that he can still go to college and
make something of himself. And we have
been having problems lately because of him
being depressed. When being pregnant and
your babys daddy is going all crazy
because of him being depressed makes you
all emotional and that hurts your baby. I
just don't know if I should help my
boyfriend or just worry about my baby?
Thank you. You can also e-mail me.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 08-19-03 13:41pm
I know what you are going through...My
boyfriend got really freaked when I had a
baby and he is still kinda freaked out and
the baby is 4 months old already. It is
normal. Most of the time yeah it is the
women who feel it the most but men feel it
to...Some are just more shallow than
others, let's put it that way. You and
your boyfriend need to learn that you guys
are in the together and you need to work
together. That is what a real
relationship is, working through the
"issues", or also know as "problems"...Me
and my boyfriend have been together for 4
years and counting and we love each other
so much. But don't mistake it because we
do fight like all normal couples
do..Relationships aren't all peaches and
cream. You will realize that....Hope I
helped. I am a teen mother too so write
me back!!
You can still have a life, you dreams are
just something more worth
accomplishing!!
You know you love me-
stacie
aol sn- mesmerizeu15
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lhileman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 79 Location: Griffin, Ga.
Dreams Posted: 08-20-03 17:07pm
Larisha, there are no reson that the both
of you can't have bright futures. True,
you may have to wait a little while until
you can get over having the baby, but hun,
I had my first at 16yrs. Old and my
second at 17 yrs. Old, I had rough times
but who dosen't? It all depends on how
strong and willing you are to make it
happen. My oldest is now 15 yrs. Old,
and my baby is 14 yrs. Old, and I am a
cosmetologist. But, hun, one thing to
remember, if you are willing and
determined, you can do it. But, you have
got to think about you and that precious
gift you have now, also, your boyfriend is
grown, your baby isn't. Well good luck
and i'm here if you need me.
