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sandyallen

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Eiri Posted: 08-22-06 17:26pm


I am sorry if I started something here! I am here for you and I am for your choice! No one is perfect, like it was said earlier and we all make mistakes, it is part of being human. I just ignore what nightangel 173 says and whoever else does not understand! You are in my thoughts.Eire! I do hope you find out that you are not pregnant and it is all just stress! Nightangel173 did upset me a little when she said something in regards to you wanting to have an abortion, like, oh heck yes, that is what we want, we wake up everyday just hoping our number has come up to have an abortion today, what on earth do these people think, that we really enjoy abortion(how rediculous)! To me that would be like wishing that my ms is worse today, that was totally unnecesary(sp). All the best to you!!

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Re: Eiri Posted: 08-22-06 18:29pm


Eiri I am still laughing at how you missed a week. I guess that's what happens to college kids on the pill hahaha. But relax eiri if you have had two periods already without doubt you are not pregnant. You can do a home pregnancy test in any case too. Now remember, at least look at the color of the pill so you know what pill you are taking, that's why the come in different color for each week. If you have any doubts of pill misuse whatever the reason remember to use backup protection aka condoms until you are sure that you are!!

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Posted: 08-22-06 18:35pm

cambion wrote:

good luck to you, eiri. I don't know if you're a student, but by all means do not let some kid ruin your life while you're in the process of making it.

an child does not ruin anybody's lives. You ruin your life yourself.

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Re: Eiri
Posted: 08-22-06 18:39pm

sandyallen wrote:

i am sorry if I started something here! I am here for you and I am for your choice! No one is perfect, like it was said earlier and we all make mistakes, it is part of being human. I just ignore what nightangel 173 says and whoever else does not understand! You are in my thoughts.Eire! I do hope you find out that you are not pregnant and it is all just stress! Nightangel173 did upset me a little when she said something in regards to you wanting to have an abortion, like, oh heck yes, that is what we want, we wake up everyday just hoping our number has come up to have an abortion today, what on earth do these people think, that we really enjoy abortion(how rediculous)! To me that would be like wishing that my ms is worse today, that was totally unnecesary(sp).

All the best to you!!

sandyallen if you don't enjoy abortions then why do it?

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Posted: 08-22-06 18:44pm

diamondsz wrote:

i had too add something to the first post

i have alot of friends who have college degrees and are on welfare(social assistance) its so hard to find a job and once they realize then can get money to sit on their ass they barely want to do anything.

happens a lot in pr. Education in pr is so cheap that so many people have degrees and there is not enough jobs. Many have to move to the us to find a job. Here in the us education is expensive so people are able to find jobs easier if they graduate.

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Posted: 08-22-06 19:43pm


Cambion did you ruin your mothers life??? Kids are beautiful and whether you like them or not what right do you have to tell woman not have one its their choice and hey if you parents didnt have sex you wouldnt be here right so dont forget where you came from!!

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Re: Eiri
Posted: 08-22-06 22:19pm

nightangel73 wrote:

eiri I am still laughing at how you missed a week. I guess that's what happens to college kids on the pill hahaha. But relax eiri if you have had two periods already without doubt you are not pregnant. You can do a home pregnancy test in any case too. Now remember, at least look at the color of the pill so you know what pill you are taking, that's why the come in different color for each week. If you have any doubts of pill misuse whatever the reason remember to use backup protection aka condoms until you are sure that you are!!

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wow, you're a serious asshole. Laugh at the woman who is going through the most stressful part of her life, having to decide to ruin her own life or kill a fetus? Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you!? So much for being compassionate and pro-life, sicko.

Women have periods while they are pregnant; my mother did and she ws 4 months pregnant before she even knew, because she was having periods. My pills are all blue by the way, except for the first week. Week two and three are both blue; one shade is slightly darker but can you honestly expect me to remember the shade of the pill? At the time, I thought I was just fine, thus why I didn't use protection. When you think you're protected, you don't use condoms.

I can not use a hpt because, as I stated, I have no money until school starts.

For those who asked, I am a senior in college. This is my final year, and then i'm going on to graduate school, without any breaks. This is no time for a child; I live with three other college kids in a crappy little house, four hours away from my boyfriend. He lives with his mother. Not good conditions for a child; and I refuse to let anyone else raise my child. That's why I would abort. My mother wouldn't let me abort or adopt if she knew I was pregnant (i don't even know if I am, i'm still hoping i'm not). She says she'd raise the child; and I refuse to let her. Thus, I would abort without telling her. I would tell my boyfriend. If I was going to have a kid, i'd give it up to adoption, but since that's impossible, I would abort it. If i'm having a kid, and my mother wanted to raise it, i'd just raise the damn thing myself.

But none of that is happening... Since I would abort, final answer.

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Nightangel173 Posted: 08-22-06 22:49pm


I must agree with.Eiri I too had 3 periods with both of my kids and my abortions were necessary but they still hurt physically and mentallyjust like my 2 m/c but you have to do what you feel is right at the time no one really wants one no one really wakes up each morning and says gosh, I would sure like to have an abortion today! They are no picnic in the park! I hope like heck she is not pregnant either but if she is, it is her choice and I will stand by her or anyone else here! That is why I have always said pro-choice are more understanding and thoughtful, they do not go around laughing at other's who are hurting, bot all b/c is alike. We are all human, we make mistakes, I am sorry that you cannot see this!

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Posted: 08-23-06 00:13am

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an child does not ruin anybody's lives. You ruin your life yourself.

i disagree - children can do a damn fine job of ruining someone's life, or the lives of a couple, whether they are dating or married. Children aren't always the deal-breaker between partners, but they sure as hell don't make life anymore enjoyable. Sorry, but burdens do not bring joy. And do not give me the line of crap about how kids are miracles, because any retard can make a child - pregnancy and childbirth aren't miraculous.

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cambion did you ruin your mothers life???

Kids are beautiful and whether you like them or not what right do you have to tell woman not have one its their choice and hey if you parents didnt have sex you wouldnt be here right so dont forget where you came from!!

yeah, I think I did ruin her life. She seemed to dislike the fact that I existed up until I was about eleven.

Hey, eiri is intelligent enough to not want to do the parent thing when she's so close to graduating, and honestly I think any woman who would choose to screw herself over in her senior year of college by spawning is an fool. Most college students struggle financially, and mentally (juggling homework, classes, and work), and there is no room for a screw-up...I mean child. Tell yourself what you please, diamondsz - if it makes you feel secure to think that children make everything all better, then by all means don't let me rain on your parade. Tell me when you learn to face reality.

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Re: Eiri
Posted: 08-23-06 01:38am

nightangel73 wrote:

eiri I am still laughing at how you missed a week. I guess that's what happens to college kids on the pill hahaha.

that's not a very .Christian attitude - i'm sure you don't mean to sound so heartless, nightangel. :-(

eiri is going through a very worrying time and while i'm not comfortable with the idea of abortion, I hardly think she is jumping for joy about the prospect. Only a very sick person would enjoy having an abortion.

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Re: Eiri
Posted: 08-23-06 05:10am

nightangel73 wrote:

sandyallen if you don't enjoy abortions then why do it?

omg are you serious?? Have you actually read any of the hundreds of posts on here??
People don't enjoy surgery but they have it done if they feel it's necessary, honestly, this is possibly the most ignorant thing you've posted

no woman wants an abortion as she wants an ice cream cone or a porsche. She wants an abortion as an animal caught in a trap wants to gnaw off its own leg. ~frederica mathewes-green
this explain it to you? And this woman is pro-life.

Eiri, I hope that it's just stress and that you're not pregnant.

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Posted: 08-23-06 09:26am


Ok im locking this post now. Eiri you have had the chance to defend yourself. Nightnangel you are way out of line. Regardless of how anyone feels this is her body her child. No one even knows if she is pregnant .