Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
How Likely? Please Help Posted: 08-18-06 19:26pm
Hello i'm always worried about getting
pregnant so even though i'm only 18 I went
up to planned parenthood and have my
copper iud fitted. Oh well anyway here's
what i'm going to ask. A day before a got
my iud. Me and my boyfriend had sex
because because i'm thinking that I will
be safe because i'm going to have a copper
iud tomorrow and I know that iud's can be
form of emergency contraceptive that can
be inserted up to 5 days and have a 99+
efficiency. But still, I was paranoid so
we still use a condom. The condom didn't
break and stayed intact. And so, the day
after that, I got my copper iud. I'm so
happy thinking that i'm going to have 10
years of effective contraception w/o the
hormones. 1 and a half weeks after that.
I developed bacterial vaginosis and I need
to take 7 days of antibiotics. After 4
days of that I suddenly felt like
vomitting, and I always feel nauseous,
accompanied with headache and my boobs are
sore. I'm just kinda wondering is this
just side effects from antibiotics or am I
possibly pregnant. My period should come
4 days from now according to my schedule
so i'm not late yet and my sore boobs can
just be a sign of pms..But I still want
opinions...Thanks
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Ingi
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Posted: 08-18-06 19:54pm
I think it is highly unlikely you are
pregnant. You used a condom. You are
currently using the iud. Sounds fairly
safe to me.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 08-18-06 22:29pm
Stop f..... Having sex ...You have
posted wayy to many threads asking the
same thing..Seems like you have one to
many scares...
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haliparot
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
Posted: 08-19-06 12:28pm
Wow jillian...You are such a nice person..
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haliparot
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
Posted: 08-19-06 12:39pm
~*~jillian~*~
wrote:
stop f..... Having sex
...You have posted wayy to many threads
asking the same thing..Seems like you have
one to many
scares...
you know what jillian you spoke of
stopping sex like it is wayyy to easy to
do that. What do you think? I didn't
try to do it myself. If you have alrady
read my previous posts you should have
known. I know that if one person is not
ready for the circumstances that he/she
should stop having sex..I know that! I
tried stopping sex altogether for some
time almost for 2 months...I fell into the
trap because for some reason I can't
control myself..But even though i'm like
that I always always use protection. I
didn't start having sex until the age
17..And all of the previous posts that you
are talking about is back when I was
15..Back when I thought some kinda of
sperm entered me when my bf did this..I
don't understand you...I've thought that
this forum is way of helping confused
people on a difficult time of their
lives..I guess it doensn't say that you
give opinions to a person up to a certain
point. Like what you have said. I
posted waaayyy to many topics already so
you are just like wasting your time so you
just suggested to stop having sex in a
manner that you have said it...It looks
like you are pissed..
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Bridget
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Posted: 08-19-06 13:03pm
Well, I agree with jillian. How can you
even enjoy sex if you think you could be
pregnant all the time? If you're so
worried about becoming pregnant stop
having sex. You say you tried and it
wasn't that easy, but pregnancy scares
aren't enough to dissuade you? There are
other ways to be intimate and show how you
feel without intercourse. What happened
to good old fashioned oral? You can't get
pregnant from that and you can still get
pleasure.
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Ingi
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Posted: 08-19-06 13:06pm
haliparot
wrote:
~*~jillian~*~
wrote:
stop f..... Having sex
...You have posted wayy to many threads
asking the same thing..Seems like you have
one to many
scares...
you know what jillian you spoke of
stopping sex like it is wayyy to easy to
do that. What do you think? I didn't
try to do it myself. If you have alrady
read my previous posts you should have
known. I know that if one person is not
ready for the circumstances that he/she
should stop having sex..I know that! I
tried stopping sex altogether for some
time almost for 2 months...I fell into the
trap because for some reason I can't
control myself..But even though i'm like
that I always always use protection. I
didn't start having sex until the age
17..And all of the previous posts that you
are talking about is back when I was
15..Back when I thought some kinda of
sperm entered me when my bf did this..I
don't understand you...I've thought that
this forum is way of helping confused
people on a difficult time of their
lives..I guess it doensn't say that you
give opinions to a person up to a certain
point. Like what you have said. I
posted waaayyy to many topics already so
you are just like wasting your time so you
just suggested to stop having sex in a
manner that you have said it...It looks
like you are
pissed..
to be fair, a lot of your pregnancy posts
have been in the past year.
That said, it is a forum about helping
confused people - but you already know
your own answer ;)
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haliparot
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
Posted: 08-19-06 13:49pm
iheartmybostonterrier
wrote:
well, I agree with jillian.
How can you even enjoy sex if you think
you could be pregnant all the time? If
you're so worried about becoming pregnant
stop having sex. You say you tried and
it wasn't that easy, but pregnancy scares
aren't enough to dissuade you? There are
other ways to be intimate and show how you
feel without intercourse. What happened
to good old fashioned oral? You can't
get pregnant from that and you can still
get pleasure.
i'm always hesitant to perform oral sex to
my bf because I used to have oral
herpes..I have since I was kid..And I
don't want to pass it to him genitally
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jaime_elms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 08-19-06 19:26pm
Jillian is right you do always post saying
u scared your pregnant!!!!! I suggest
you either stop having sex, or be more
carfull, or jus stop worrying all the
time. Go on the pill& use
condoms!!!Then ur double protected and may
worry less. Or just dont take risks, I
mean one night of not having sex before u
go on contraception the next day wouldnt
be to much to ask, I mean u cud have had
it next day! I suggest you go n see a
doctor and get something sorted, to
protect u from pregnany and std's, then ur
extra safe
well, I agree with jillian.
How can you even enjoy sex if you think
you could be pregnant all the time? If
you're so worried about becoming pregnant
stop having sex. You say you tried and
it wasn't that easy, but pregnancy scares
aren't enough to dissuade you? There
are other ways to be intimate and show how
you feel without intercourse. What
happened to good old fashioned oral?
You can't get pregnant from that and you
can still get
pleasure.
i'm always hesitant to perform oral sex to
my bf because I used to have oral
herpes..I have since I was kid..And I
don't want to pass it to him
genitally
i agree with I heart! Honestly-you cant
control yourself? That is a lame excuse.
Is it really worth having a baby over?
Use your brains.
Also, I get cold sores sometimes on my
mouth. You wont pass it to the genital
area unless you actually have a cold sore
at the time. The rest of the time the
virus stays dormant in your system.
Genital herpes are different, you can
spread those at any time regardless if you
have an outburst or not.
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haliparot
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
Posted: 08-19-06 23:31pm
nataliachick7
wrote:
haliparot
wrote:
iheartmybostonterrier
wrote:
well, I agree with jillian.
How can you even enjoy sex if you think
you could be pregnant all the time? If
you're so worried about becoming pregnant
stop having sex. You say you tried and
it wasn't that easy, but pregnancy scares
aren't enough to dissuade you? There
are other ways to be intimate and show how
you feel without intercourse. What
happened to good old fashioned oral?
You can't get pregnant from that and you
can still get
pleasure.
i'm always hesitant to perform oral sex to
my bf because I used to have oral
herpes..I have since I was kid..And I
don't want to pass it to him
genitally
i agree with I heart! Honestly-you cant
control yourself? That is a lame excuse.
Is it really worth having a baby over?
Use your brains.
Also, I get cold sores sometimes on my
mouth. You wont pass it to the genital
area unless you actually have a cold sore
at the time. The rest of the time the
virus stays dormant in your system.
Genital herpes are different, you can
spread those at any time regardless if you
have an outburst or
not.
dude i'm just here to tell you that what
you said is wrong. You can pass any type
of herpes hsv I or ii even if you are
having symptoms..That means you can pass
both oral and genital herpes even though
outbreaks not "outbursts" are not
present.. The only difference of hsv I
and ii is their area of preference and it
doesn't affect how you transfer
them..Better get your facts straight..
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 08-20-06 04:15am
Locked because this is turning into an
argument and is not going to help anyone.
