Hey! I know i've been asking alot of
questions lately but I feel more
comfortable asking questions on here than
calling my mom every 5 minutes to ask
stuff lol. Since about a month ago my b/f
has been having worse mood swings then me!
Could it be just because hes scared or
nervous of the twins? Or what? He just
gets irritated really easily lately. I
asked him if he would get me a glass of
water tonight since he was going into the
kitchen and he flipped out and had to take
a walk to cool off before he came back to
bed. I dunno whats up with him.
Hopefully nothing fishy is going on or I
might have to play detective when he goes
out lol i'll look like
a stalker but no one needs a cheater!
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Posted: 01-21-04 06:24am
Hey, men go through just as many mood
swings as us women do. Especially during
their girlfriends/wives pregnancy,
remember this is all new to them too.
Thats a big role to take on being a daddy,
look at all the new responsibilities he is
going to have too. Just try to stay calm
and patient with him is my only advice
right now...Good luck!
Melissa
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 01-21-04 09:57am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-04-04 14:02pm; edited 1 time in total
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metal_girl76
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Dec 2003 Posts: 62 Location: Illinois
Reply Posted: 01-22-04 18:46pm
Alright well we sat down and talked about
things but the answer to everything I
asked was "i dunno" so I got a little
worried about everything, hes making it
really difficult to trust him now. And
today I found something out that disturbed
me a bit. I called his cell phone because
I thought he was at work but his step
brother answered and informed me that the
past couple days they didnt have work. So
basically he lied and told me that hes
been going off to work when really hes
been going out with his step brother doing
who knows what. I confronted him about it
and again all he said was "i dunno". When
he got home I had locked him out of the
house cause I was too upset to let him in
and talk to me. Hes over at his moms
house right now cause she lives right next
door and he keeps calling me. What should
I do?!?!?!?! Everytime I ask him what hes
been doing or why he lied I never get an
answer. Theres gotta be something going
on, and right now I cant handle all this
stress. Should I just move back into my
moms house until this gets straighten out
or should I just let him back in the house
and wait until he decides to talk? This
sucks lol
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 01-22-04 18:56pm
Hey,
i think you should tell him to tell you
the truth or you wont let him back
in..Maybe its nothing at all or maybe it
is...Just take a bath or a long walk and
think about everything. Or just play
music loud and sing..It always works with
me when I am about to lose it..If u wanna
talk pm me...Good luck!
Alison xoxo
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Hey Posted: 01-22-04 18:57pm
Metal girl I am no expert but when they
cant give you a straight answer that is
always a problem. Relationships are built
off trust and communication. I would
demand answers now! If he still cant give
you a straight answer I would look at my
options and maybe move on
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metal_girl76
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Dec 2003 Posts: 62 Location: Illinois
Posted: 01-22-04 19:13pm
Well after I posted that (not even 15
minutes ago) I went to take a walk with my
mom cause she came over and he seen me
walk outside so he ran after me. He said
he was sorry and all that stuff but sorry
loses its meaning after you heard it so
many times ya know? So I told him he
could go back home but I was gonna be gone
for awhile. So me and my mom walked
around town for a bit and talked about
things. I came back in and he explained
that he didnt tell me he was off of work
cause he wanted to go and hang out with
his friends instead of staying home all
day. Ok...Is it just me or was lying
about work pointless? He acts like I
would have killed him or something if he
went out with his friends. He should know
by now that if he lies about something I
will find out about it sooner or later.
Sometimes I wish I had the guts to get up
and leave. If he still acts like this
when the babies are born i'm moving back
home with my mom because I do not want to
children growing up around parents who
fight constantly. I dont know why he
decided to start lying to me about these
things while i'm pregnant with his kids.
He was never like this before.....
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lol i'll look like
a stalker but no one needs a cheater!
