What Does Cum Look And Feel Like??help!! Posted: 08-27-06 01:29am
I used to be sexually active but after
reading magazine articles and that...I
start to think that I dont think i've ever
really orgasm or cum!! Do all women have
to cum?? There was a time where I had
tried masturbating by clitoral stimulation
and I had the urge to pee so I stopped. I
tried again another time but kept
going...Then a thin liquid came out...Im
afraid this might be pee and not cum...I
want to know how do they (cum) feel and
look like..Should it be a bit thick??
White??
I dont think i've ever reached the "big o"
as its known but i've had the feeling good
thing going on...Im abit worried.
I've also got a 2yrs old daughter and
eversince they birth i've lost interest in
sex...I think im too loose or
something...Does pelvic floor exercises
really help?? I dont think I can ever cum
or close to it.
They say it feels a little tingly thing
going on when u have an orgasm..I dont
think i've ever been there. Once, I was
on top of my bf position and had a lot of
clitoral stimulation going on..Suddenly I
had the same urge to pee so I hopped off
which scared and embarrased me a lil...
Thats why i've joined this health forum to
find out abit more. Hope all u guys out
there can help me out! It would be great.
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dramaqueen
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2006 Posts: 34 Location: United States
Posted: 08-29-06 07:19am
Blackrose, believe me, if you had ever had
an orgasm, you would know for sure that
you had. It doesn't sound like you have.
The liquid you were talking about is most
likely just your body creating a natural
lubricant as it was being stimulated.
Your body does this so things go "more
smoothly" when you have sex. Some of us
women are just very unlucky in the fact
that it is difficult for us to reach an
orgasm. Other women out there are very
lucky in that it is very easy for them to
orgasm. A lot of women have that same
sensation of needing to urinate. I am the
same way, and unfortunately have never
gotten past it. I always stop at this
point, as it is extremely uncomfortable.
I always had the sneaking suspicion that
if I could get past this point good things
would happen, but it is too uncomfortable,
so I never have. This is probably a
little much for this sight, but if you
have a child already you are by no means
naive, I would try a sexual aid (vibrator)
with clitoral stimulation. Many women can
reach an orgasm this way. If the
sensation is uncomfortable, try
stimulating below the clitoris, and not
directly on it. That might help.
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blackrose
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Australia
Tell Me More!! Posted: 08-29-06 08:06am
dramaqueen
wrote:
blackrose, believe me, if
you had ever had an orgasm, you would know
for sure that you had. It doesn't sound
like you have. The liquid you were
talking about is most likely just your
body creating a natural lubricant as it
was being stimulated. Your body does
this so things go "more smoothly" when you
have sex. Some of us women are just very
unlucky in the fact that it is difficult
for us to reach an orgasm. Other women
out there are very lucky in that it is
very easy for them to orgasm. A lot of
women have that same sensation of needing
to urinate. I am the same way, and
unfortunately have never gotten past it.
I always stop at this point, as it is
extremely uncomfortable. I always had
the sneaking suspicion that if I could get
past this point good things would happen,
but it is too uncomfortable, so I never
have. This is probably a little much for
this sight, but if you have a child
already you are by no means naive, I would
try a sexual aid (vibrator) with clitoral
stimulation. Many women can reach an
orgasm this way. If the sensation is
uncomfortable, try stimulating below the
clitoris, and not directly on it. That
might help.
thnx dramaqueen...I understand wat ur
saying but I really think the liquid that
came out at that time was pee...It felt
like water...But pee..U no wat im saying??
After dat...I wasnt interested in
continuing and had to stop.
Are u able to describe wat they look and
feel like?? Im very curious!
They say when u have an orgasm they feel
like a tingling sensation, like
fireworks..Is dat true??
So are u saying....In the past 5 years...3
partners...And I havent orgasmed???!!!
Wow!!
Maybe I should spend a lil more time
knowing myself sexually, hmmm..
Thanks
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dramaqueen
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2006 Posts: 34 Location: United States
Posted: 08-29-06 08:54am
Hey if you know how to do the personal
messages yet, since I am computer
illiterate for the most part, then send me
a personal message and I will talk to you
there, I really don't mind discussing
these things, but have found some of the
people on this sight can be easily
offended. Okay? Hope to hear from you
then.
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