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singindave
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Could I Be the Father?
Posted: 08-30-06 11:05am
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I have a very odd situation and i'm trying
to figure out if it is at all possible I
am the father...
I was with a girl when I was in a
different country and i'm not exactly sure
what the date was. I have something
she wrote me while we were together and it
is dated 10/5/2005. I think at the
very maximum I was with her at like
10/12/2005 but it was probably a little
bit before that.
She had a baby on 7/7/2006. She told
me she was 3.5 months preg in the end of
march (she also told me I was not the
father). If she was telling the truth
she would have been pretty early, no?
All I know is that she is super tiny...
Possible unheathily tiny (92 lbs and about
5'2'') and she had a c-section. I
don't think she would lie about this to me
but she has lied in the past. I just
want to know, medically, is there a chance
it could be my child? I want to do dna
but I don't want to look like a fool for
requesting dna. Do underweight girls
have early deliveries? Is it likely
that she could still have a late delivery
or one that was on time? What do you
think?
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natzcee
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Posted: 08-30-06 11:16am
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Yeah it is possible becoz she would have
concived the baby around the 30/9/05 so it
is possible
i duno if she would lie about something
like that I think thats something u need
to speak to her about xx
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Moo
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Posted: 08-30-06 11:16am
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Last edited by Moo on 08-30-06 11:31am; edited 1 time in total
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sweet_wun
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Re: Could I Be the Father?
Posted: 08-30-06 11:18am
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Is she in another country now?Would she
come over if shes in another country so
that u can do a dna cause she might not
want that I think you should talk to her
and say you want to know for sure if you
have a child.X
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Emma2
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Posted: 08-30-06 11:20am
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If she has a 28 day cycle and had her baby
on her estimated due date set by her Dr.
Then you have a very good chance because
concpetion occured around friday, october
14, 2005
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singindave
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Posted: 08-30-06 11:31am
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Oh I did talk to her... It's drama city.
I hate this... But I wont' go into it on
a medical board. I really don't think it
is mine but you all think it is possible.
I think I can do dna kit test from
abroad. She's lives in mexico and
doesn't speak english (and my spanish is
decent but far from fluent). I've told
her I needed to speak with her again about
this and she won't talk to me when I see
her online so this is proving to be quite
difficult.
I would like to know more about c-sections
and girls that are underweight. She
looked healthy but she was certainly very
thin. I know c-sections can be used for
about any reason but in mexico I would
think it would only be used when medically
necessary.
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Zanny
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Posted: 08-30-06 11:40am
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If she's tiny then it makes sense that she
had a caesarean section.. Girls with a
narrow pelvis can't always have babies
naturally, because complications can occur
during birth.
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singindave
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Posted: 08-30-06 11:42am
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I'm almost certain that was the reason she
had a c-section. She had very small
hips. I know she did gain weight
during pregnancy... Do you think a
girl like that would have nomal/late/early
deilvery? Are all 3 possible?
What is the most likely? Normal delivery
date? Might she be slightly delayed
from the onset of conception because she
was so tiny and possibly not eating
properly or does that not matter? This
was her 1st time so I dont' know if that
matters
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 08-30-06 12:47pm
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What makes you think she had the baby
early?? Wishful thinking??
And if she says its not yours, then trust
her. If it was, im sure she'd let you
know considering she'd want child support
and what not.
A woman knows best about her body.
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Emma2
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Posted: 08-30-06 12:55pm
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| singindave
wrote: | | i'm almost certain that was
the reason she had a c-section. She
had very small hips. I know she did
gain weight during pregnancy... Do
you think a girl like that would have
nomal/late/early deilvery? Are all 3
possible? What is the most likely?
Normal delivery date? Might she be
slightly delayed from the onset of
conception because she was so tiny and
possibly not eating properly or does that
not matter? This was her 1st time so I
dont' know if that
matters |
forget the tiny part...That is absolutely
irrelevant!!! Why dont you ask her if
she had her baby right on time (a few days
less or more is still on time)....Thats
what needs to be addressed.
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singindave
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Posted: 08-30-06 13:07pm
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Trust her? I dont' think I can do that --
i'm sure she does know her body very
well... I don't trust her and I have my
reasons. I just wanted to see if i'm
crazy for thinking it is possible
medically speaking.
I'm gonna really push her to get in
contact with me again... Thanks :-)
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Emma2
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Posted: 08-30-06 13:11pm
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| singindave
wrote: | trust her? I dont' think I
can do that -- i'm sure she does know her
body very well... I don't trust her and
I have my reasons. I just wanted to see
if i'm crazy for thinking it is possible
medically speaking.
I'm gonna really push her to get in
contact with me again... Thanks
:-) |
yeah u need to ask her if her baby was
full term...
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