Ok to all the ladies who have had vaginal
births... Is there really a difference in
the way you feel or sex feels after u have
a baby?? I know that changes occur but
are they that dramatic? Anyhow I just got
done babysitting for a single mom of 3 who
was giving me some advice on child birth
and raising and so on and she scared the
hell out of me when she said how much she
has changed down there. Lol she said that
she was 21 when she had her 1st son cody
and that her and her bf had sex 5 weeks
after the baby was born and when they were
done he told her she felt like the grand
canyon ! How disrespectful!!! Grrrrrr.
Just curious since I am gonna have my
first. I used to be curious as to what
labor and such felt like and now im
terrified! I have a very low tolerence
for pain. Thanks to all those who post.
~ erica.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 01-21-04 23:46pm
Lol! I've actually been onwdering the
exact same thing! Guess I never thought
to ask! Yah cuz I heard afterwards...
Guys say its kinda "big" still and I dont
wana feel like that
hope somenoe has some good advice lol!
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004 Posts: 229 Location: In the 'Tweens
Posted: 01-21-04 23:55pm
Its a lot different! Right after having a
baby, the first 3 or 4 months I had hardly
any feeling because I was still going back
to normal, but after a few months and
“tightening” exercises I felt the “goods”
again! Lol of course nothing will be the
same, but who says change is bad? You
just have to learn a few good tricks!
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ERICA1121
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 252 Location: DETROIT
Posted: 01-21-04 23:57pm
Lol I know right?! Well there are kegel
exersices. Not sure if u know what those
r anyway some1 with info will eventually
post ! When r u do oh and dont u already
have a child or am I mistaken? ~ erica.
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004 Posts: 229 Location: In the 'Tweens
Posted: 01-21-04 23:58pm
I am not pregnant anymore, I have 3 kids,
camden, almost 7. Dayton, 3 1/2 and
yvonna almost 11 months!
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ERICA1121
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 252 Location: DETROIT
Posted: 01-22-04 00:04am
Lol sorry I meant to say that to the post
be4 urs I know u have kids we must have
been posting at the same time. Btw, sorry
about your husband. Kit and good luck ~
erica. Oh yeah I know it might be
different but is it a big dif and did u
notice it more having 3 kids versus ur
first?
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anorexicbeauty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2004 Posts: 229 Location: In the 'Tweens
Posted: 01-22-04 00:05am
Thanks, actually I didn't have sex after
having camden at least not until I dated
dayton and yvonna's dad and that was about
3 years later, so I don't know! Lol
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 01-22-04 08:17am
I had a csection as you all know, but what
I did hear from fathers of babies (of
course) is that it actually tightens to
feel like a "virgin"...But I dont kow how
true that is..I guess it depends to how
fast your cervix closes.
hope somenoe has some good advice lol!