How to You Seperate Child Sex Abuse From Adult Sex? Posted: 08-31-06 19:09pm
Can anybody help me with that one?
I love sex now but I have flashbacks and I
want them to stop.
I am in therapy now....Just wanna have
total great sex without the thoughts.
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pauly boy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2006 Posts: 85 Location: florida
Hiya, Posted: 09-01-06 08:46am
Right as I only know really nothing about
you,do you prefer to talk privat?
Please get back to me.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Re: How to You Seperate Child Sex Abuse From Adult Sex? Posted: 09-01-06 16:50pm
stillalive
wrote:
can anybody help me with
that one?
I love sex now but I have flashbacks and I
want them to stop.
I am in therapy now....Just wanna have
total great sex without the
thoughts.
it may be that you could
have been abused as a child and you
repressed those memories and they are
coming back now.It's a good thing you got
into therapy because it is a hard thing to
go through.
Paul, you don't have to know her to answer
the question
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StillAlive
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2006 Posts: 4 Location: Indiana
Hmm Posted: 09-02-06 13:01pm
I remember alot of it....The therapy was
to help let it go and gain some self
esteem and trust and self worth etc.
The therapist says my body remembers and
will shut down which I have noticed it
does.
As for pauly...Not sure about him he seems
to have an answer to everything yet to
nothing...Lol
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 09-02-06 14:41pm
Have you tried .E.M.D.R(eye movement
desensitization and reprocessing) it is
done generally by a psychologist, not a
psychyiatrist and is done either by knee
tappping or finger movement and it is kind
of like a hypnosis but not really, it
takes you back to the negative plsce and
time and it has worked god on some people
that have been sexually abused, anyway you
go back there and it allows you to release
the negative feelings, it has even worked
on people with phobias, post war syndrome
peple and a lot of other situations, you
might do some research on it, it has
helped me and I was raped and I have sent
others there and it has helped the too and
I am not trying to sell it to you but you
might want to researchit.
All the best!
