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jgtc06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jun 2006
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Location: Olympia,Washington
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6 Weeks After Delivery
Posted: 09-01-06 12:52pm
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Why do you have to wait 6 weeks after
dilivery to have sex? Is it safe to do it
if you feel you are ready and you use
birth control and condoms? I no longer
feel sore and was wondering if it was okay
if we tryed having sex and see if my body
was even ready. I don't understand why
they say not sex for 6 week.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Posts: 7892
Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 09-01-06 12:55pm
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I had sex 4 weeks after. I only had 1
stitch and felt comfortable. We did use
protection as you're fertile mertile after
a baby.
You might need to use lube, but because of
scar tissue, start slow. Don't just jump
on it...You'll need to eaaaase it on in!
It's been 4 and a half months and I still
eaaaase it in. And I only had one stitch.
Scar tissue is a bbbiiioootttccchh!!
Good luck girl!! Get cha soooommmee!!!
Sarah
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jgtc06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jun 2006
Posts: 156
Location: Olympia,Washington
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Posted: 09-01-06 12:57pm
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Thank you very much. I have what they
said a level one tear and wasn't bad at
all.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posts: 7892
Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 09-01-06 13:00pm
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Yea, mine was the same. I was soooo
fricken horney I didn't care!!!
Hahaha...But make sure you're ready. You
might change your mind once it goes in.
You could have some small internal tears
that aren't healed up.
Have fuuunn!!
Sarah
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 09-01-06 13:22pm
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It's cause it can cause an infection.
Even after my c-sec I had to wait 6 weeks
and I didn't even want to think about sex
let alone have any. Lol
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Posts: 7892
Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 09-01-06 14:51pm
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I think it's more of a pelvic rest, than
anything. The infection part makes a
loooot of sense. I'm not suggesting sex,
if it's only been about 2 weeks. Give it
some time.
I can't talk much, cuz I had sex at a
month. But every situation is
different.
Good luck giirl!
Sarah
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Ingi
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Posted: 09-01-06 16:01pm
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Pelvic rest and the risk of infection can
be high. Those are a few of the reasons
to wait.
Use birth control if you are planning on
having sex - even if you are breast
feeding!
Go slow. Use lots of lube. And don't do
it if it doesn't feel good.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 4580
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Posted: 09-01-06 16:45pm
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I think it depends upon your dr, the
birth, how healthy you are and so forth
and so on, yes, you do have to be careful
for infections, their are not two births
that are the same and if you do have sex
before the time that your dr says and
something goes wrong just be prepared for
the dr to say, I told you to wait and kind
of like ingi says, to use b/c and to use
your head and lots of tlc as you are still
very sensitive down there. Just because
you have had the baby and are feeling okay
it doesn't mean that you are healed, it
takes time to heal from the inside and
plus having a baby takes a lot out of you!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 09-01-06 16:48pm
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Yeah,just because of the infection factors
and the tearing and your tissue not being
healed all the way, I wouldn't do it.I
would wait until the doctor gave the ok
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Posts: 7892
Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 09-01-06 16:59pm
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Oh yea, tell my vagina that!!!!
Hahahahahahaha
had to add that!
Sarah
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jgtc06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jun 2006
Posts: 156
Location: Olympia,Washington
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Posted: 09-01-06 18:30pm
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Yea I know right. Thank you very much
ladies for giving me the info, and help.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 09-01-06 22:37pm
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You're a brave soul... Lol!
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