While setting up my school schedule for
this year the school counselor said I
would have to go by and talk to every
teacher on my list and ask them if it is
okay to be in their class and that some
teachers might not allow me and that they
were allowed to do this.
I'm not sure this is true, do any of you
know about any of this? It would be
considered sexual discrimination (against
me for being the gender that can
procreate) if a teacher refuses to have me
in their class. Or maybe is just
allowing me to go to school enough? I'm
pretty sure a teacher wouldn't have a
right to refuse to have me in their class
but it would be nice to think that the
school counselors who help guide students
futures know what their talking about...
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 09-01-06 17:21pm
It's more than likely to see if they have
enough room for you. Some teacher's
classes might be full, therefore you'd
have to find an other teacher that teaches
the same subject.
I don't think it is ethical for a teacher
to discriminate again any specific gender,
being that the people in their classes
will be co-ed. (2 sexes)
She specifically said some teachers might
not want me in their class because of me
being pregnant.
I'm still in high school. I have
english, pre-school, art, history, and
physics on my list this term, and next
term through a program where I work from
home i'm getting my last math another
physics and then another grade 12 course,
I haven't decided which yet. I want to
study to be either an optometrist or a
teacher in the fall. (though i'm
considering waiting a year for
university.)
the lady was so rude. She tried to put
me into stupid math, and I was like "why
would I have suffered through calculus all
the years up until grade 12 just to take
consumer math in my last year, which I
can't even go to university with".
Also, all the courses i've taken up until
now have been the specialized ones instead
of the generalized ones, and this term she
tried to switch me over to all generalized
courses because it "would be an easier
load". My baby isn't here yet, and i'm
not lazy, and I didn't become stupid the
second I was impreganated. It is such a
piss off, i've never failed a class,
always taken all the hardest courses,
always been on the honour roll and now
they treat me like i'm an fool. It was
a completely unpleasant experience dealing
with the school this week.
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natzcee
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Joined: 11 May 2006 Posts: 288 Location: glasgow
Posted: 09-01-06 17:45pm
Thats shockin!!! :| just because ur prego
teachers wont want you in their class :| I
think they should b happy that u want to
carry on your education and they should do
everything in their power to help you!
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 09-01-06 18:08pm
That's very uncalled for on the schools
part!! Did your mom or dad go with you?
What do they think about the schools
discrimination nonsense? Sometimes if
parents get involved schools are more
likely to back off and let things go in
fear of making a scene. Not always, but
sometimes they will back off if parents
get involved. Good luck, and I hope your
school years gets better!!!
I really don't think it's the school so
much as this one particular crusty b*tchy
counselor. I didn't get my dad involved,
but if when I go by the talk to all my
teachers I have a problem then I will.
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 09-01-06 18:23pm
I see. Yeah, some people have such
miserable unhappy lives they have to act
like that and try to make other people
unhappy. It's pathetic! Yikes! It's
almost 7:00 here and I still have to get
to the bank before it closes!! Guess I
better go wake up my little monster and
get going! I hope this lady straightens
up, if not maybe I can take a trip up to
canada and visit her ;)
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
Posted: 09-02-06 12:30pm
Im sure u guys have some sort of a school
board in .Ontario. Get ur mom or dad to
give them a call... See what their
thoughts are on the subject.
Thats not right.
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Birch
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Posted: 09-02-06 20:32pm
That totally bites! However, as a former
teacher (in usa) I can tell you that
school is not a democracy and you don't
get "equal rights". In a publically
funded school, you cannot discriminate
admission-wise. In a private school you
certainly can. As far as what teachers
get which students, that's a very personal
decision. Teachers don't like all
students and may request to "not have them
scheduled" into their class.
On the other hand, if a teacher has a
problem with your pregnancy it's to your
advantage not to have to see them on a
daily basis anyways. The counselor might
be doing you a favor.
Best of luck! I hate the "you're young
& pregnant=stupid" stereotype. As if
it isn't hard enough...