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Cha-Cha

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Just Wondering If It Could Be My B/f
Posted: 09-02-06 00:23am

Well to make along story short... My boyfriend got me preggo in november. It ended in a miscariage. Since then I havent been pregnant.... He got hit in the balls a lot @ school ( 3-4 times a week ). Him and his friends were like abusing eachother for fun!!! They would sack wack eachother laugh and then when someone wasnt paying attention then the that person would do it to him... Im so doing it pissed because if that made him infertile I will be so heart broken....

I mean I know it could be me... And im scared im infertile now... But now im also scared its him.

Is there something he can do to check his sperm count to see if he is healthy and can have children and he isnt shooting blanks...????

Im going to somehow get myself tested to...

Any ideas for him????
Rachel
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prelude

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Joined: 06 May 2006
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Posted: 09-03-06 09:32am

See a doctor for checks
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singledad

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Joined: 19 Aug 2006
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Location: New Mexico

Posted: 09-03-06 11:27am

It can't be good for you, watching too much friend, you should both get checked.
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sandyallen

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Posted: 09-03-06 11:38am

I am sorry that this is happening to your husband, they should be acting like men and realize the cicumstances, I can understand your being upset, however, I do agree that it would be a good idea also to get you both checked out, eventhough the damage is done, somethings can be repaired and it is not unusual for the 1st time to have a miscarriage.
Keep us posted!
We are here for you!
All the best!
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Cha-Cha

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Joined: 30 May 2006
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Posted: 09-07-06 19:48pm

Yeah I know, I swear if I see it happen... Im going to punch the person who did it!!!!!!! I mean the scariest thing would be if either of us were infertile.
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uranidiotchacha

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Joined: 16 Feb 2007
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Ur An fool
Posted: 02-16-07 01:07am

Its gods blessing you didnt have a child in the first place. Think before you pollute the world with your genes when you get "preggod". In fact remove yourself from the human genepool, take ur boyfriend with you, who likes to whack his balls with ur friends balls you dumb female part of the body
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shopgirl11072003

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Joined: 05 Feb 2007
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Re: Ur An fool
Posted: 02-23-07 03:31am

uranidiotchacha wrote:
Its gods blessing you didnt have a child in the first place. Think before you pollute the world with your genes when you get "preggod". In fact remove yourself from the human genepool, take ur boyfriend with you, who likes to whack his balls with ur friends balls you dumb female part of the body
Why are you saying that to her??? are you even human?????? Confused Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
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PaulJ

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Joined: 23 Feb 2007
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Posted: 02-23-07 13:04pm

Neither of you are infertile, as he did get you pregnant. May be a different problem if you continuasly have mis-carriages, but since it's only one mis-carriage it's probably just bad luck. Try again, if you have a mis-carriage again, then see a doctor.
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Jaydensmommy

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Posted: 03-02-07 23:31pm

Well I wouldn't worry. If you were just pregnant in december that really wasn't that long ago. Many many pregnancys especially first end in miscarriages. If he was able to get you pregnant in the first place he isn't infertile and neither are you. There is no way that him getting kicked so often could effected the sperm to end up in turn making your pregnancy end in miscarriage. The only way the kicking and damaging the testicles would affect anything is his sperm count. When the body has a miscarriage it means the body dispelled it because something wasn't right with the fetus. I would definately give it another try. Many women take months to get pregnant. I myself took almost 7 months. Just be sure to tell your doctor if you get preg. next that you had a previous miscarriage in november. I also don't advise trying to get pregnant again this soon, this could cause another miscarriage. What did your obgyn say about this misc? Or wasn't it too early and you hadn't seen a doc?
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help

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Joined: 04 Feb 2007
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Location: Australia

Posted: 03-02-07 23:45pm

Hey! Firstly i would like to say that im so sorry to hear about your m/c, it must have been horrible for u. Also, if he has gotten you pregnant once it is a sign that he is not infertile. Someones people just miscarriage for no reason so please dont beat yourself or him up over it. If your really concerned it is probably best that you go and talk to your doctor. Getting "sack whacked" cant have been good but it wont necessarily make him infertile.

All the best with trying to concieve!!
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chicagocole24

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Joined: 25 Feb 2007
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Location: illinois
Sorry
Posted: 03-03-07 00:35am

not to be rude but any guy that runs around hitting eachother in the balls sounds to immature to have a kid..... but I dont know you or him I just hope the best for you....how old are you?
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