Just Wondering If It Could Be My B/f Posted: 09-02-06 00:23am
Well to make along story short... My
boyfriend got me preggo in november. It
ended in a miscariage. Since then I
havent been pregnant.... He got hit in
the balls a lot @ school ( 3-4 times a
week ). Him and his friends were like
abusing eachother for fun!!! They would
sack wack eachother laugh and then when
someone wasnt paying attention then the
that person would do it to him... Im so
doing it pissed because if that made him
infertile I will be so heart broken....
I mean I know it could be me... And im
scared im infertile now... But now im
also scared its him.
Is there something he can do to check his
sperm count to see if he is healthy and
can have children and he isnt shooting
blanks...????
Im going to somehow get myself tested
to...
Any ideas for him????
Rachel
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prelude
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Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 77
Posted: 09-03-06 09:32am
See a doctor for checks
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singledad
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Joined: 19 Aug 2006 Posts: 86 Location: New Mexico
Posted: 09-03-06 11:27am
It can't be good for you, watching too
much friend, you should both get checked.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 09-03-06 11:38am
I am sorry that this is happening to your
husband, they should be acting like men
and realize the cicumstances, I can
understand your being upset, however, I do
agree that it would be a good idea also to
get you both checked out, eventhough the
damage is done, somethings can be repaired
and it is not unusual for the 1st time to
have a miscarriage.
Keep us posted!
We are here for you!
All the best!
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Cha-Cha
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Joined: 30 May 2006 Posts: 151
Posted: 09-07-06 19:48pm
Yeah I know, I swear if I see it happen...
Im going to punch the person who did
it!!!!!!! I mean the scariest thing would
be if either of us were infertile.
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uranidiotchacha
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Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 1
Ur An fool Posted: 02-16-07 01:07am
Its gods blessing you didnt have a child
in the first place. Think before you
pollute the world with your genes when you
get "preggod". In fact remove yourself
from the human genepool, take ur boyfriend
with you, who likes to whack his balls
with ur friends balls you dumb female part
of the body
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shopgirl11072003
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Joined: 05 Feb 2007 Posts: 18
Re: Ur An fool Posted: 02-23-07 03:31am
uranidiotchacha
wrote:
Its gods blessing you didnt
have a child in the first place. Think
before you pollute the world with your
genes when you get "preggod". In fact
remove yourself from the human genepool,
take ur boyfriend with you, who likes to
whack his balls with ur friends balls you
dumb female part of the
body
Why are you saying that
to her??? are you even human??????
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PaulJ
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Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 02-23-07 13:04pm
Neither of you are infertile, as he did
get you pregnant. May be a different
problem if you continuasly have
mis-carriages, but since it's only one
mis-carriage it's probably just bad luck.
Try again, if you have a mis-carriage
again, then see a doctor.
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Jaydensmommy
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Posted: 03-02-07 23:31pm
Well I wouldn't worry. If you were just
pregnant in december that really wasn't
that long ago. Many many pregnancys
especially first end in miscarriages. If
he was able to get you pregnant in the
first place he isn't infertile and neither
are you. There is no way that him getting
kicked so often could effected the sperm
to end up in turn making your pregnancy
end in miscarriage. The only way the
kicking and damaging the testicles would
affect anything is his sperm count. When
the body has a miscarriage it means the
body dispelled it because something wasn't
right with the fetus. I would definately
give it another try. Many women take
months to get pregnant. I myself took
almost 7 months. Just be sure to tell
your doctor if you get preg. next that you
had a previous miscarriage in november. I
also don't advise trying to get pregnant
again this soon, this could cause another
miscarriage. What did your obgyn say
about this misc? Or wasn't it too early
and you hadn't seen a doc?
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
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Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 214 Location: Australia
Posted: 03-02-07 23:45pm
Hey! Firstly i would like to say that im
so sorry to hear about your m/c, it must
have been horrible for u. Also, if he has
gotten you pregnant once it is a sign that
he is not infertile. Someones people just
miscarriage for no reason so please dont
beat yourself or him up over it. If your
really concerned it is probably best that
you go and talk to your doctor. Getting
"sack whacked" cant have been good but it
wont necessarily make him infertile.
All the best with trying to concieve!!
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chicagocole24
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Sorry Posted: 03-03-07 00:35am
not to be rude but any guy that runs
around hitting eachother in the balls
sounds to immature to have a kid..... but
I dont know you or him I just hope the
best for you....how old are you?