Hello there
i have been with my partner for nearly 2
years he works away from home . A few
weeks ago he told me wasnt feeling too
well coughing and couldnt get rid of the
cold or cough but when he got had blisters
on his foot and the other foot was just
painful couldnt get better
but accidentally I opened his computer and
found fotos of 3 different women and he
agreed that he paid for sex . Could he be
infected with some kind of virus he
insisted that he used condoms and he had
sex with just one
i fear a lot cos there is a lot aids all
over the place he is based in africa now
please help
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kiklis2k
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Advise Posted: 09-05-06 00:08am
It would be rather advisable not to panic
at this moment, yet to be cautious about
his risk behaviour. You could do a few
things to protect him and yourself and the
family.
1. Avoid sex until you get him for a
examination of viral diseases
2. Talk to him casually about when was
the last time he had involved in a risk
behaviour and get him examined for hiv or
other viral infection atleast 3 months
after the risk exposure
3. Advise him that you are there for him
and he need not go out to taste cappucino
.
Thats all for now
regards
kiklis2k
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usbbar
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 49 Location: Undefined
Posted: 10-03-06 03:04am
Africa. It depends on the exact area, but
I know that in south africa a staggering
20% of people have hiv/aids. That's quite
scary and you should be a bit worried.
Yet again... It's harder for men to get
it; the only way is if he had a cut on his
genitals.
