Made Appointment- Can Carifary And Others Help Posted: 09-05-06 18:50pm
I have a question for everyone and
carifary because I know you work at a
clinic. I made an appt got it off
gynpages link. The do iv sedation with
demeroyl and valium. The real problem I
am having is I am 9 weeks and will be
almost 10 by next week. What is the
average week for abortion in 1st
trimester. I am feeling guilty for not
getting one at 6 weeks. Am I a horrible
person. Is the fetus much more developed
in 3 weeks? Also can anyone tell me
their experiences? I am very
scared...They said I would be out in 1- 1
1/2 hours so it seems more private a
clinic
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-05-06 19:23pm
10 weeks is not too rare; it begins
getting rare at 12-26 weeks.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 09-06-06 10:49am
Hi there!
89% of all abortions happen before 12
weeks....
Women have aboritons from 6-12 weeks!
Many women have an abortion at 9-10 weeks,
not everyone can take time off of work so
easily. Not all women have 400$ just
laying around to spend.
You certianly did not wait too long my
dear. I do not think you should feel
guilty at all, but I realise that this is
a unique circumstance for you, and that
all feelings can be felt.
The more private clinics are very nice, I
believe you will be quite pleased with the
level of care you may recieve.
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Meandering Away
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Re: Made Appointment- Can Carifary And Others Help Posted: 09-06-06 11:54am
scaredandconfused
wrote:
i have a question for
everyone and carifary because I know you
work at a clinic. I made an appt got it
off gynpages link. The do iv sedation
with demeroyl and valium. The real
problem I am having is I am 9 weeks and
will be almost 10 by next week. What is
the average week for abortion in 1st
trimester. I am feeling guilty for not
getting one at 6 weeks. Am I a horrible
person. Is the fetus much more developed
in 3 weeks? Also can anyone tell me
their experiences? I am very
scared...They said I would be out in 1- 1
1/2 hours so it seems more private a
clinic
no you are not an horrible person and
anyone who says that you are is just
stupid and vindictive.You have no reason
to feel guilty, who has made you feel
guilty, they should just keep their traps
shut and let you work through it, support
you but not grief you.Good luck.
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Moo
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Posted: 09-07-06 07:01am
Please don't be scared, you're not a
horrible person. 10weeks is very average
time for abortion so don't feel guilty.
I hope that it goes well for you.
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oranginalou79
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Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 9
Posted: 09-07-06 14:07pm
I had mine at 13 weeks and I was very
worried that I was too far along, but I
really had no problems or complications.
I was very scared, but the day went well
and I am feeling no regrets. Best of
luck - let us know if we can do anything
for you!