Melissa_20
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After Pregnancy
Posted: 09-06-06 08:52am
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I saw someone say that after you've had a
baby your 'hole' stays big and even though
your man doesn't say anything he really
doesn't want to have sex with you because
its unpleasurable to him. I know you just
had a baby but my question is is sex still
enjoyable for both parties?
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Tazzy D
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Re: After Pregnancy
Posted: 09-06-06 08:54am
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | i saw someone say that after
you've had a baby your 'hole' stays big
and even though your man doesn't say
anything he really doesn't want to have
sex with you because its unpleasurable to
him. I know you just had a baby but my
question is is sex still enjoyable for
both parties? |
i have heard the same thing, but my man
and I both dont have that problem
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Ingi
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Re: After Pregnancy
Posted: 09-06-06 08:56am
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | i saw someone say that after
you've had a baby your 'hole' stays big
and even though your man doesn't say
anything he really doesn't want to have
sex with you because its unpleasurable to
him. I know you just had a baby but my
question is is sex still enjoyable for
both parties? |
your 'hole' doesn't stay big. Lol. In
fact, you have control of that with kegel
exercises (you can do those right now too)
to strengthen the muscles there.
Sex is still enjoyable. It isn't as if a
baby comes out and leaves you with some
gaping cavernous area down there. A baby
comes back and your body heals itself.
Sex will hurt for awhile but it feels the
same as ever. ;)
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Emma2
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Posted: 09-06-06 09:12am
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Lol the grand canyon! Mel, your vagina
is all muscle and it does go back normal
like ingi said with kegels ....Even
without the excercise in time it heals
itself...Lol I like the way you described
the vagina as a "hole" ..Lollllll
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natzcee
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Posted: 09-06-06 09:26am
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Omg thats the funniest thing ever :o:))!!
God help thoese people who have had 10
pounders :)) hehe!!
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-06-06 09:43am
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You know.. As a matter of fact, mine was
smaller after .Jacob was born. Rob said
it felt like I was a virgin again.
He said something funny the other day....
(since it has to do with the topic at hand
lol) rob and I were talking about a
hootchie friend of ours who has 4 kids
from 4 dads and is prego with number 5..
And I was like, "can you imagine what its
like having sex with her after so many
kids?" and he was like, "probably like
throwing a hot dog down a hallway." I
laughed my ass off. Maybe it wasnt that
funny to other people, or maybe it was the
way he said it but I laughed so hard I
almost peed myself. I think it mostly had
to do with the fact that I actually
pictured him throwing a hot dog down a
hallway.
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Emma2
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Posted: 09-06-06 09:57am
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | you know.. As a matter of
fact, mine was smaller after .Jacob was
born. Rob said it felt like I was a
virgin again.
He said something funny the other day....
(since it has to do with the topic at
hand lol) rob and I were talking about a
hootchie friend of ours who has 4 kids
from 4 dads and is prego with number 5..
And I was like, "can you imagine what its
like having sex with her after so many
kids?" and he was like, "probably like
throwing a hot dog down a hallway." I
laughed my ass off. Maybe it wasnt that
funny to other people, or maybe it was the
way he said it but I laughed so hard I
almost peed myself. I think it mostly
had to do with the fact that I actually
pictured him throwing a hot dog down a
hallway. |
i would never wanna be a friend fo yours
if this is the way you talk about your
friends....On a public forum on top of it.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 09-06-06 10:02am
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | "probably like throwing a
hot dog down a hallway." I laughed my ass
off. . . .I think it mostly had to do
with the fact that I actually pictured him
throwing a hot dog down a
hallway. |
I didn't use the word hole,he did! Lol so
don't make fun! : )
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-06-06 12:58pm
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| emma2
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | you know.. As a matter of
fact, mine was smaller after .Jacob was
born. Rob said it felt like I was a
virgin again.
He said something funny the other day....
(since it has to do with the topic at
hand lol) rob and I were talking about a
hootchie friend of ours who has 4 kids
from 4 dads and is prego with number 5..
And I was like, "can you imagine what its
like having sex with her after so many
kids?" and he was like, "probably like
throwing a hot dog down a hallway." I
laughed my ass off. Maybe it wasnt that
funny to other people, or maybe it was the
way he said it but I laughed so hard I
almost peed myself. I think it mostly
had to do with the fact that I actually
pictured him throwing a hot dog down a
hallway. |
i would never wanna be a friend fo yours
if this is the way you talk about your
friends....On a public forum on top of
it. |
rude comments arent appreciated. Try
being nice for once.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 09-06-06 13:03pm
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Lol mel how dare you think I have a loose
hole!!! Hahahhaahhhahahaha that's
hilarious! Maybe if they didn't stitch
you back up I could see it being loose,
but it's actually tighter than before!!
My man has a hard time not coming to quick
cuz he says it's tooo tight!! I don't
mind the tightness at all ya
heeeaarrrddd!!!!
I wanna have 3 kids, depending on the
sexes, so I hope I don't get loose after
3!!!
Sarah
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-06-06 13:10pm
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | lol mel how dare you think I
have a loose hole!!! Hahahhaahhhahahaha
that's hilarious! Maybe if they didn't
stitch you back up I could see it being
loose, but it's actually tighter than
before!!
My man has a hard time not coming to quick
cuz he says it's tooo tight!! I don't
mind the tightness at all ya
heeeaarrrddd!!!!
I wanna have 3 kids, depending on the
sexes, so I hope I don't get loose after
3!!!
Sarah |
lol I second that. Rob gets so maaaaaaad
sometimes because if we havent done it for
a few days, the combination of being too
tight and not getting any for a few makes
him finish after like, 5 minutes if he
doesnt slow down and make it stop. Poor
boy lol.
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Emma2
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Posted: 09-06-06 13:28pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | you know.. As a matter
of fact, mine was smaller after .Jacob was
born. Rob said it felt like I was a
virgin again.
He said something funny the other day....
(since it has to do with the topic at
hand lol) rob and I were talking about a
hootchie friend of ours who has 4 kids
from 4 dads and is prego with number 5..
And I was like, "can you imagine what
its like having sex with her after so many
kids?" and he was like, "probably like
throwing a hot dog down a hallway." I
laughed my ass off. Maybe it wasnt
that funny to other people, or maybe it
was the way he said it but I laughed so
hard I almost peed myself. I think it
mostly had to do with the fact that I
actually pictured him throwing a hot dog
down a
hallway. |
i would never wanna be a friend fo yours
if this is the way you talk about your
friends....On a public forum on top of
it. |
rude comments arent appreciated. Try
being nice for
once. |
sorry rain....I didnt mean to upset
you....But why dont you try not talking
about you friends that way....Its very
hypocritical...Thats all...Have a good
day:)
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-06-06 13:41pm
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Im sorry its not being hypocrytical.
Im not saying one thing and doing
another.
Her and I have a tight friendship and she
knows shes a hootch. I've told her to her
face she must be like a slip and slide.
She thinks its funny.
She in return makes fun of my big fat ass.
We laugh about it. Thats what friends
do. You'd know that if you had any.
I wasnt out to amuse you, .Emma.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 09-06-06 13:44pm
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | lol mel how dare you think I
have a loose hole!!! Hahahhaahhhahahaha
that's hilarious! Maybe if they didn't
stitch you back up I could see it being
loose, but it's actually tighter than
before!!
Sarah |
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Emma2
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Posted: 09-06-06 13:52pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | im sorry its not being
hypocrytical.
Im not saying one thing and doing
another.
Her and I have a tight friendship and she
knows shes a hootch. I've told her to
her face she must be like a slip and
slide.
She thinks its funny.
She in return makes fun of my big fat ass.
We laugh about it. Thats what friends
do. You'd know that if you had any.
I wasnt out to amuse you,
.Emma. |
wow..Im so sorry I didnt realize being
called a "prostitute" was funny...But I
know you dont mind when people point out
that you have a fat a$$...Anyhoo...Its all
good ...
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-06-06 13:56pm
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Lmao I .K.N.O.W I have a fat ass so its
all good.
She .K.N.O.W.S she a hootch.
Friends poke fun at each other.
I like my fat ass thank you. And proud to
wear a size 14. So get over it.
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Emma2
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Posted: 09-06-06 13:59pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | lmao I .K.N.O.W I have a fat
ass so its all good.
She .K.N.O.W.S she a hootch.
Friends poke fun at each other.
I like my fat ass thank you. And proud
to wear a size 14. So get over
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im over it....Fat @ss is nice to some
men....Why so defensive?
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-06-06 14:10pm
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Not defensive.. I would have gone off on
a tangent and gotten rude if I was being
defensive... Which I didnt... I was
merely explaining things.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 09-06-06 14:19pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | lmao I .K.N.O.W I have a fat
ass so its all good.
She .K.N.O.W.S she a hootch.
Friends poke fun at each other.
I like my fat ass thank you. And proud
to wear a size 14. So get over
it. |
hey! I wear a size 13/14! Lol I have
wide hips. . .
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-06-06 14:25pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | lmao I .K.N.O.W I have a fat
ass so its all good.
She .K.N.O.W.S she a hootch.
Friends poke fun at each other.
I like my fat ass thank you. And proud
to wear a size 14. So get over
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hey! I wear a size 13/14! Lol I have
wide hips. .
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i have since I hit puberty. Im a serious
hourglass girl. Before I had kids I was
like, 38-30-38 lol now im like
1000-4000-2000
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