Complete Loss of Sex Drive Posted: 09-08-06 10:18am
I have been with my bf for about 7 months,
everything was great for about 4 months,
then I got on the shot and started working
more and my sex drive has completly
vanished. I still love hime very much but
even the thought of kissing him will anoy
me greatly it seems like thats all he
wants, but when I stop and think about it
it has been 3 months since I tried
anything with him and get mad if he even
looks at me like he is in the mood. I
dont understand he is a great guy and does
everything for me. Is this normal
anything I can do about it ? He is
starting to get fustrated. The other
morning he came in from work and had a bad
night I guess I was in bed and he came
over and asked me to roll over and hug him
good night and I for some reason I got so
mad and said I was comfortable why should
I have to roll over to please you.
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niners
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2005 Posts: 31
Posted: 09-08-06 15:54pm
If you really love him, I would try and
change something before he is gone. You
have to remember he can stop himself from
getting horny, its human nature. I know
what he is feeling because my wife has the
same problem with a low sex drive. We
went for 9 months one time without having
sex and we have only been married for 3
years. But if he really loves you he wont
leave you. I would never leave my wife
even if we never had sex again. One lady
on here said her doctor told her to
masturbate several time a week to try and
raise her sex drive. She tried to do it
just before her husband got home to try
and be in the mood for him. She said now
her sex drive is higher then his. My
wifes doctor told her to make time once a
week at first for sex. She also told us
to try new positions, but the bad thing
about that is we already do that. Good
luck!!! :)
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fiona05
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Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 662 Location: , Norn Iron
Posted: 09-08-06 19:17pm
If he's still with you, he's obviously
committed! Well I dont know much about
the shot, but I know that certain pills
can f*ck up your hormones - big time.
Sounds to me like the combination of
chemicals in it is messing with you - go
to the doctor and sort it out. When I
first went on the pill I was on one that
didnt agree with me. It made my breasts
hurt like hell!!! And friends of mine
have also had to change because they have
made them depressed / emotional / other
side effects.
I feel sorry for your boyfriend reading
your post. It must bite hard if you ask
your girlfriend for a hug and she
essentially tells you to get stuffed! If
I were in your position i'd be glad he
wanted sex a lot cos it would reassure me
that he found me attractive, and that he
wanted to be close to me. It must be
hard for him thinking you maybe don't feel
the same? Certainly, talk to him. And
see what the doctor says
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