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Q: Maternity Leave
asked by: jessesgirl on September 9th, 2006
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I was wondering when some of you guys took your maternity leave. I know it's different for each person and situation. I've probably asked this before, but I forget everything these days. I'm a pre-k teacher, so i'm always on my feet. My job's getting harder b/c I can't get on the floor at their level, I can't bend down, I can't dance around with them for longer than a couple of minutes. I have special needs children also that need lots of attention and I have to get my helpers to tend to them b/c I can't. I'm so tired at the end of the day. By friday i'm pooped and sore all weekend. As soon as I get home I have to lay down for a little while or I get swollen and get a bad backache. I feel good for the first part of the school day, but I do downhill after lunch. I have 7 weeks left and my principal is expecting me to work until my due date. I don't know what to do. My doctor said when I had enough just to let him know. I want to work as long as possibly, but physically and mentally I can't go anymore. But I keep thinking of all the things that need to be done before my leave. I don't know what to do. I'm just looking for advice or if someone's been through it.
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Mabel
replied on September 9th, 2006
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Re: Maternity Leave
jessesgirl wrote:
i was wondering when some of you guys took your maternity leave. I know it's different for each person and situation. I've probably asked this before, but I forget everything these days. I'm a pre-k teacher, so i'm always on my feet. My job's getting harder b/c I can't get on the floor at their level, I can't bend down, I can't dance around with them for longer than a couple of minutes. I have special needs children also that need lots of attention and I have to get my helpers to tend to them b/c I can't. I'm so tired at the end of the day. By friday i'm pooped and sore all weekend. As soon as I get home I have to lay down for a little while or I get swollen and get a bad backache. I feel good for the first part of the school day, but I do downhill after lunch. I have 7 weeks left and my principal is expecting me to work until my due date. I don't know what to do. My doctor said when I had enough just to let him know. I want to work as long as possibly, but physically and mentally I can't go anymore. But I keep thinking of all the things that need to be done before my leave. I don't know what to do. I'm just looking for advice or if someone's been through it.

Thanks


for a lot of people it is a monetary decision or they cannot take more than 6 weeks maternity leave. If you use that up prior to the birth of your baby, you are coming back to work sooner. And no one wants to shorten that time at home with their baby!

Every pregnancy is different. Some women feel they can work right up until they give birth. Other women feel like they need to wind down from work before having a baby - they might have a ton of stuff to get ready before the baby comes.

Do whatever is best for your situation.
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jessesgirl
replied on September 9th, 2006
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Money's not an issue. I can take as long as I want, but without pay. I'm taking off until january 3rd no matter what. I just don't know when to start it. I guess I feel guilty leaving them at work without me, but i'll have to do it sooner or later.
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sandyallen
replied on September 9th, 2006
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Jessesgirl
The dr could put you on light duty and your boss could get you some assistance until after your pregnancy because some special needs means lifting, pushing a wheelchair or pulling, which I am not a dr but I sure wouldn't recommend it with being pregnant. It is really between you, you dr and your boss.
Good luck to you!
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jessesgirl
replied on September 9th, 2006
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My helper does all that. I don't do any lifting, changing diapers, pushing or anything else. It's just being on my feet for 8 hours that's wearing me out so much and not being able to do much with my kids b/c I can't move around.
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arcadia
replied on September 9th, 2006
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If you feel like you can't handle it any longer,
then start now! You know your limits &your body best.
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