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Cha-Cha
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Question...
Posted: 09-10-06 20:18pm
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I think im going to give up on getting
preggo... I think it cant be done....
Like im getting so upset about it!
Everyone around me is preggo..... But
ofcourse even if I have sex everyday it
doesnt happen.... I dont know what to do.
I think I want to give up... And look
into adoption this is getting depressing
stressful and overwelming...... I think
there is something wrong with me and or my
fiance'.......
Has anyone else gone through this ( just
wanting to stop trying )
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arcadia
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Posted: 09-10-06 20:49pm
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How long have you two been trying,
.Rachel?
If it hasn't been a year- then don't give
up, yet!
It usually takes even a healthy fertile
couple
a long time (up to a year) to conceive!
If you've been trying for a year,
then you can see a specialist to see
what's up!
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Cha-Cha
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Posted: 09-10-06 21:00pm
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Well I got preggo in november and it ended
in a miscariage in january.... Then I
went on b-control for 2ish months and now
im on nothing....
Its so hard you know? Its so stressfull.
Thanks for answering back : )
i bet so many people feel like this though
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alanna
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Posted: 09-11-06 02:38am
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I wish I could pass my "fertileness" on to
you...
I feel so bad when people try for years
and can't have babies, and I accidentily
get pregnant!
I hope things work out for you!
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Re: Question...
Posted: 09-11-06 10:41am
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| cha-cha
wrote: | i think im going to give up
on getting preggo... I think it cant be
done.... Like im getting so upset about
it! Everyone around me is preggo.....
But of course even if I have sex everyday
it doesn't happen.... I don't know what
to do. I think I want to give up...
And look into adoption this is getting
depressing stressful and
overwhelming...... I think there is
something wrong with me and or my
fiance'.......
Has anyone else gone through this ( just
wanting to stop trying
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try to relax and not stressing over it
took me 8 months to get pregnant with this
one I was trying way to hard so I gave up
on buying test just relax it will happen
try haven sex in the morning too the
seamen is better I guess that what I have
read and hold your bottom up in the air
for a while so the semen can go to the
right spot.. Sending lot and lot of baby
dust your way
mary37w4dw#4 due any day know
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Kia
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Posted: 09-11-06 10:48am
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The first time I got pregnant - it was
accidentally (well as accidental as rape
gets)
the second time it took me 3 years to
conceive.
Since then (2 years) against all odds I
have conceived twice, unfortunately 1 was
ectopic and the other was a non-viable
pregnancy (blighted ovum).
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Jules
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Posted: 09-11-06 11:26am
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I hope you don't mind me asking, but what
is a 'blighted' ovum? Does it just mean
a dodgy egg?
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michelle1981
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Posted: 09-11-06 11:55am
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Natalie, you know you can get pregnant,
because you have..... Good news! I
know it's hard to not think of it, but if
you just let it go and say if it
happens---great, if not, it will one day.
I know it's easier said than done.....
Believe me hun! When I conceived .Brian
I was switching b/c and bam!!! Just like
that! A year after he was born we
started trying again. After one year and
nothing I made an appt. With my ob/gyn.
Finally, 2 months after that .Jordan was
conceived. With my m/c, I conceived
well, just being lazy and not picking up
my prescription. I was off b/c for 2
months :shock:. Now with this pregnancy,
we never stopped trying since we m/c'd
last june. One year of trying and now
i'm carrying my precious bean ;)
it'll happen hun!!!
Last edited by michelle1981 on 09-11-06 13:06pm; edited 1 time in total
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-11-06 11:56am
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Rachel, hun.... Have patience!!!
Honestly, if you think about it.... You
have to have sex at the *precise* moment
for conception to occur. Just have fun
trying, because thats the best part of the
whole thing!! :-)
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michelle1981
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Posted: 09-11-06 11:59am
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Ooops, sorry .Rachel, I called you
.Natalie...... Please forgive me!!!!!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 09-11-06 12:29pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | | ooops, sorry .Rachel, I
called you .Natalie...... Please forgive
me!!!!! |
its ok cause I called tanya carrie,lol
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michelle1981
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Posted: 09-11-06 12:50pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | michelle1981
wrote: | | ooops, sorry .Rachel, I
called you .Natalie...... Please
forgive
me!!!!! |
its ok cause I called tanya
carrie,lol |
i have an excuse .Mel, i'm pregnant lol
what's yours? :p
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sandyallen
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Posted: 09-11-06 13:02pm
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Adoption is a good thing! Their are a lot
of kids and baby's out there that needs
love and a good home. You know I gave up
after 4 bad experiences and that is when
things happened for me but it is also a
good idea to get yourselves both checked
out it could even be just the stress.
I wish you the best whatever you decide!
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-11-06 13:21pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | michelle1981
wrote: | | ooops, sorry .Rachel, I
called you .Natalie...... Please
forgive
me!!!!! |
its ok cause I called tanya
carrie,lol |
i have an excuse .Mel, i'm pregnant lol
what's yours?
:p |
cuz shes wacko ;-p
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 09-11-06 13:30pm
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Yea girl, don't quit. After I got off of
birth control it took me and my fiance a
whole year and a half. As a matter of
fact, the month before I got pregnant, I
gave up. I was like f*ck it, it's just
not meant to be. I thought something was
wrong with me. Well the next month,
.Hurrican .Katrina hit and my period
didn't come. I was 3 weeks pregnant and
had no idea. I tested when I was about 5
weeks and...Well you know the rest...
Please don't give up mentally. It will
happen for you. God knows what he's doing
and I promise his timing for you will be
perfect.
With me, god timed it to cheer me up after
the most devistating storm ripped into my
city....
Sarah
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Kia
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Posted: 09-11-06 13:47pm
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| purestgreen
wrote: | | i hope you don't mind me
asking, but what is a 'blighted' ovum?
Does it just mean a dodgy
egg? |
not at all :)
usually it is just a case of the egg not
containing any/all the dna strings and
therefore once that egg is fertilised by a
sperm, it will often implant and then
nothing will happen.
What happen was my hcg levels stayed
really low and didn't double like they
should.
Because of what has happened with me so
far my doctor gave it more than the usual
chances to develop (although I was kept a
close eye on as low hcg levels can
indicate an ectopic and I already had one
so that put me at greater risk of another
- especially with my messed up tube), but
it didn't and then shortly afterwards, I
expelled everything like a period.
It can't be called a miscarriage because
there wasn't a developing baby to miscarry
- just a collection of faulty cells.
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Cha-Cha
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Posted: 09-11-06 18:31pm
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Yeah, ive been having sex like everyday...
Twise a day or more.....
And about adoption.... I was adopted and
it was the best thing that could have ever
happend to me!!!! ( I was adopted when I
was 2 days old lol ) but my birth mother
was broke... And she had to other kids
and was going through a divorce.... And
yes I was the affair child!!! So im all
up for adoption... But its so hard to
relax.. I know you all know what I mean
.... Its so hard to be paitent! Lol
thanks for all your messages : )
and can I tell you it was so cold today!
I thought I was going to die! Where was
the 85 degree weather! Ah!
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Cha-Cha
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 09-11-06 18:43pm
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Cold??? Down here it's 91 right now...And
it's 6:44 pm!!
Sarah
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Cha-Cha
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Posted: 09-11-06 19:56pm
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It was 64 here today in boston... I
thought I was going to cry!!! Im like
lets have sex in the morning... Jake is
like ah... Hmmm... Cold?!? Lol.
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