Hey im 18 years old.. My boyfriend and I
well everytime we do it, it seems to be
the same and it's getting boring for the
both of us, he stays on top for a while,
then I get on top and we finish it off
with doggy style. He told me that sex is
getting old, not with me but just sex in
general, and ive tried to spice it up like
having sex in the shower, and on the
bathroom sink, but still its old to
him.... What can I do to like make him
want me more?... I usually spend the
night with him for 3 days and we only do
it like once or twice I want to make it so
good, that he wants it more... Ive gave
him numerous about of blow jobs, tried to
dress sexier... And everything....
Please dont tell me handcuffs and whip
cream or any of that stuff, I mean im sure
someday we will do that, but maybe just
something that would make it better,, what
makes a blow job better? Or whats more of
a turn on during sex?.... Anything would
help right about now.. I've tried anal
sex,, I dont really like it.... But I
want to please him what do you think I
should do?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-11-06 10:39am
Look, having sex twice in three days is
pretty good!! No, it's not nyphomania,
but still, that's a good amount of sex.
I think it's you who's horomones are a
little bit higher than his. Next time
you're together, wait, and let him
initiate sexual contact. Don't be afraid
to suggest "let's do it off the side of
the bed" or things like that once you get
going, but make him start it. If he's
bored with sex, indulge in other daily
activities.
If he's not always expecting it, that can
also make it more exciting. So if you
start visiting, and not initiating sexual
contact, a) he'll know he gets to start it
when he feels like it, and b) your
mettings won't be totally focused on sex.
C), after this has been going on for a
while, you might even end up not having
sex at all during one of your visits.
Next time, you engage him. He'll be
suprised, since you've been letting him
have control the whole time!
Your relationship can be about more than
just the sex, and perhaps this is a stage
where you two need to focus on your
out-of-bed expereinces together. Too
much sex can make anyone bored, and
perhaps twice in three days is just too
much for him.
Is he older than you? He may be reaching
a different stage of maturity than you as
well. Does he have anything in his life
that is stressing him out? That can also
cause a loss of sex drive. Trouble in
bed is often a sign of something from the
outside influencing his mind and focus.
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nawtaprincess
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2006 Posts: 105 Location: ky
Posted: 09-11-06 12:10pm
No he is younger than me, I took his
virginty less than a year ago, so I
defintley thot his hormones would be
higher.... He is 17 and I am 18. Thanks
for some of the tips, yeah im usually the
one who starts the moves first, it's kinda
hard not to, but im going to try that
:-).....
eiri
wrote:
look, having sex twice in
three days is pretty good!! No, it's
not nyphomania, but still, that's a good
amount of sex. I think it's you
who's horomones are a little bit higher
than his. Next time you're together,
wait, and let him initiate sexual
contact. Don't be afraid to suggest
"let's do it off the side of the bed" or
things like that once you get going, but
make him start it. If he's bored with
sex, indulge in other daily activities.
If he's not always expecting it, that can
also make it more exciting. So if you
start visiting, and not initiating sexual
contact, a) he'll know he gets to start it
when he feels like it, and b) your
mettings won't be totally focused on sex.
C), after this has been going on for a
while, you might even end up not having
sex at all during one of your visits.
Next time, you engage him. He'll be
suprised, since you've been letting him
have control the whole time!
Your relationship can be about more than
just the sex, and perhaps this is a stage
where you two need to focus on your
out-of-bed expereinces together. Too
much sex can make anyone bored, and
perhaps twice in three days is just too
much for him.
Is he older than you? He may be
reaching a different stage of maturity
than you as well. Does he have anything
in his life that is stressing him out?
That can also cause a loss of sex drive.
Trouble in bed is often a sign of
something from the outside influencing his
mind and focus.
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Jadc
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2005 Posts: 45 Location: London
Posted: 09-11-06 18:53pm
Well
if you want sex to be fun again and make
you both crave for one another....Dont
have sex for at least 3days ...The teasin
here and there will make it even better
for you on the 3rd day.The guy will feel
it when he *cums* because over the 3days
of arousel ..*easy terms* his balls will
become full and erupt and the same goes
for the women she will have a great
feeling when shes cums.
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