Well first of me and my girlfriend are
both 17 years old, grade 12 high school
students. Both practically straight a
student (she always has a minimum of 70%
in her class and I have a minimum of 60%
in certain class the rest 70%+ but we are
both in university level courses), both
very good kids. We've been going out for
the past 4-5 years, we meet in grade 8 and
started going out in grade 8. We met when
I was djing the school dance (djing/music
production is my choosen career).
Recently we've started to engage in sex.
Now she has told me that she is pregnant.
First of all we havnt told our parents
yet, we don't know how. She says she
wants to keep the baby. What ever she
decideds to do i'm going to stick with her
no matter what. I just need some advice
on what to do.
Plz help
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-11-06 20:57pm
Anyone please
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ANGELOS MAMA
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jul 2006 Posts: 1128 Location: , San Diego,California
Posted: 09-11-06 21:22pm
When I got pregnant I was 15 im now 16
with a 4 month old babyboy.First off she
needs some prenatal vitamins for your
baby.If you two really love your child you
will go through whatever caca is thrown to
you.Believe me its hard at first but so
much more worth it at the end.When you
there in larbor and delivery its one of
the worth painful beautiful things in the
world that one can replace.Im now happily
married with my babydaddy.Good luck with
everything.Pm me if she has any questions.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 09-11-06 21:26pm
Well I know you might be scared..I have
been there ..I was 17 when I found out I
was pregnant..Now my son is 13 months and
I look back and thank god that I had
him..He is the best thing that has ever
happened to me..I know you are worried
about telling your parents..But the sooner
the better..Now is the time for you to
prove to them you are mature enough to
face them with the news...They might be
disappointed but in the end they will love
that baby more than life itself..I think
you and your girlfriend should talk and
then maybe tell both your parents at the
same time..Just remember ...This baby is a
gift and you and your girlfriend need to
get it out in the open so that the both of
you can plan for the baby and enjoy
it..Good luck and if you need anything
feel free to pm me..
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-12-06 12:00pm
How did your parents take it¿
angelos mama
wrote:
when I got pregnant I was 15
im now 16 with a 4 month old babyboy.First
off she needs some prenatal vitamins for
your baby.If you two really love your
child you will go through whatever
bullhealth question is thrown to
you.Believe me its hard at first but so
much more worth it at the end.When you
there in larbor and delivery its one of
the worth painful beautiful things in the
world that one can replace.Im now happily
married with my babydaddy.Good luck with
everything.Pm me if she has any
questions.
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ANGELOS MAMA
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jul 2006 Posts: 1128 Location: , San Diego,California
Posted: 09-12-06 13:27pm
They were just quiet.Cried.And now its all
over with
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Posted: 09-12-06 14:11pm
The first advice that I can give you.. 1.
Seek medical attention to make sure that
her and the baby are okay and to find out
all the dates and etc.
And also tell your parents. No matter
what we say or do. Are parents will
always love us. They may be hurt or etc,
but the will love you no matter what.
Parents love their children
unconditionally. Good luck to you
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-12-06 14:36pm
For seeking medical attention it has been
done already it was one of the first thing
my girl did,
tazzy d
wrote:
the first advice that I can
give you.. 1. Seek medical attention
to make sure that her and the baby are
okay and to find out all the dates and
etc.
And also tell your parents. No matter
what we say or do. Are parents will
always love us. They may be hurt or etc,
but the will love you no matter what.
Parents love their children
unconditionally. Good luck to
you
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
Posted: 09-12-06 14:48pm
Before you tell your parents I would make
sure that you are totally sure that she is
pregnant. That way you won't have to
bring up a tender issue and possibly make
a big deal over something that isn't
happening. Some parents tend to feel
betrayed or very hurt, others feel the
need to yell and voice their
disapointment, this could cause you and
your girlfriend undo pain.
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-12-06 14:51pm
Shes 100% pregnant. We went to the
doctor and the doctor told us both she is
pregnant
sunflower_pie81
wrote:
before you tell your parents
I would make sure that you are totally
sure that she is pregnant. That way you
won't have to bring up a tender issue and
possibly make a big deal over something
that isn't happening. Some parents tend
to feel betrayed or very hurt, others feel
the need to yell and voice their
disapointment, this could cause you and
your girlfriend undo
pain.
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Sophie585
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2006 Posts: 141 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-12-06 15:23pm
Hey....I recently told my parents that I
was pregnant too... Do you still live
with them, or do you guys live together?
I think living together would make things
a lot easier....I know it did when I told
my mom. Well I think it did anyways. At
least she knows she won't have to take
much responsibility, because we're not
living with her.
I waited until I was around 3 months to
tell her, just because I was too afraid of
what she would say. When me and my bf
finally told her, all I said was "so we're
having a baby." she was upset and
dissapointed, and I gave her some space.
She still hasn't completely come around,
but I think she will eventually. But it
really helps having our own place, because
me and my bf aren't stuck under the same
room as our parents, with them constantly
going on about how we screwed up.
There's really no easy way to break it to
them. Chances are, they will be hurt and
dissapointed, but they'll eventually get
over it. Telling them is definitely one
of the hardest things you'll do, but its
something that has to be done. My
boyfriend was with me when we told my
parents, and I think that was a good
choice too. The two of you are in this
together.
Good luck, and I hope everything works for
you!!! <3
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-12-06 19:32pm
Yes I still live with my parents. For
sure we are going to live together after
the baby is born if not sooner. What my
plans so far is to move into my basement
rec room. Make it into 2 rooms. 1
bedroom and a smaller rec room where my
studio would be moved to (im a dj, well a
g12 high school student but I do djing)
sophie585
wrote:
hey....I recently told my
parents that I was pregnant too... Do
you still live with them, or do you guys
live together? I think living together
would make things a lot easier....I know
it did when I told my mom. Well I think
it did anyways. At least she knows she
won't have to take much responsibility,
because we're not living with her.
I waited until I was around 3 months to
tell her, just because I was too afraid of
what she would say. When me and my bf
finally told her, all I said was "so we're
having a baby." she was upset and
dissapointed, and I gave her some space.
She still hasn't completely come around,
but I think she will eventually. But it
really helps having our own place, because
me and my bf aren't stuck under the same
room as our parents, with them constantly
going on about how we screwed up.
There's really no easy way to break it to
them. Chances are, they will be hurt and
dissapointed, but they'll eventually get
over it. Telling them is definitely one
of the hardest things you'll do, but its
something that has to be done. My
boyfriend was with me when we told my
parents, and I think that was a good
choice too. The two of you are in this
together.
Good luck, and I hope everything works for
you!!!
<3
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-13-06 09:37am
Will my pregnant girlfriend have any
problems at school since she is currently
pregnant?
