Well first of me and my girlfriend are
both 17 years old, grade 12 high school
students. Both practically straight a
student (she always has a minimum of 70%
in her class and I have a minimum of 60%
in certain class the rest 70%+ but we are
both in university level courses), both
very good kids. We've been going out for
the past 4-5 years, we meet in grade 8 and
started going out in grade 8. We met when
I was djing the school dance (djing/music
production is my choosen career).
Recently we've started to engage in sex.
Now she has told me that she is pregnant.
First of all we havnt told our parents
yet, we don't know how. She says she
wants to keep the baby. What ever she
decideds to do i'm going to stick with her
no matter what. I just need some advice
on what to do.
Plz help
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Cassandra030506
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 26 Location: Ontario
Posted: 10-13-06 19:05pm
I think you're pretty much doing it,
staying with her and supporting her is the
only thing you can do right now.
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Momjsta
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2006 Posts: 8
Plz Help Posted: 02-02-07 22:51pm
My husband and I were in a similar
situation about 8 years ago. Staying
together and being supportive is great. I
personally wrote my parents a letter
telling them that I was pregnant. It
seemed like it would be easier for
everyone to deal with, if it wasn't in
person. It went over well, they had time
to think it over and calm down before we
talked.
We have been together since 9th grade and
did get married right before we had our
first son.
Make sure that you both finish up school
the best you can and go on to college if
possible. Now adays you have to have it
for a good job.
Let me tell you that all of this worry and
stress is worth it for the end result. A
healthy baby.
Now we have four and wouldn't trade them
for the world. They are what's all
about.
Sorry to ramble. I hope that I helped.
