Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 251 Location: North Carolina
Sex In a Relationship Posted: 09-12-06 13:56pm
I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7
months now. We are eachothers best
friend, and are very much in love. But
what I can't understand is that it seems
like we have less and less sex. At the
beginning of our relationship, it's like
we were intimate a lot more than we are
now. It's not me, ha because my sex drive
is very on point. I'm not sure how to
bring this up to my boyfriend without
making it sound harsh or making him feel
bad about it because I don't want to do
that. He works a lot, and works hard. I
know that on somedays he's just too tired
and worn out for sex, but other days i'm
not so sure what's up. I just kinda miss
our everyday sex I guess.
Has anyone else ever had this happen? Any
advice or suggestions?
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Crazyness24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2006 Posts: 179 Location: Jersey
Its Normal! Posted: 09-14-06 08:32am
Hey there. I've been with my man for
almost 4 years now. We were both virgins
when we met so we were having sex like
crazy! Now I noticed as well its not
nearly as much...I took it personal, I was
worried he didn't find me sexually
attractive anymore..So I talked to him,
when your with someone you need to be able
to talk to them. When I talked to him, he
said he is very sexually attracked to me
still, it's just he works a lot and is
under stress for financial reasons. After
a while hunnie you have to work at it
more. Every one of my friends thats been
in long term relationships says its
normal. Just tell him how you feel, I bet
it will be what im telling you now. You
can also try new things...What I do is out
of no where, i'll send him dirty text
messages, sometimes even dirty
pictures...He goes crazy!! I even take
naked pics of myself and he puts them on
his camra. It sounds crazy but men are
very visual. Once you do these things he
will go nuts and want you so bad! This
just happens over time he is with you
because he loves you. It just takes work.
When men are tired, sick stressed they
would rather do nothing but chill. Maybe
even put on some sexy clothes and strip
for him. Good luck hun. When you talk to
him, bring it up causually dont start with
"i dont think you find me sexually
attractive anymore" just say I love you
and I want to make sure im keeping you
satisfied.
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deebaby621
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 251 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 09-14-06 10:23am
Thanks so much for the advice. I'm glad I
got a mature response from someone who was
been in my situation! It always helps
when you can relate to other people.
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