How Can I Convince My Husband to Get Me Pregnant? Posted: 09-12-06 17:13pm
Exactly what the subject states.
Married 1 year
dating 5 years
have a beautiful home
great job
whats the problem
how can I concince my husband to get me
pregnant?
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Mamma-Wanna-Be
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Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 82 Location: Las Vegas, NV
Re: How Can I Convince My Husband to Get Me Pregnant? Posted: 11-02-06 04:47am
tinytrish
wrote:
exactly what the subject
states.
Married 1 year
dating 5 years
have a beautiful home
great job
whats the problem
how can I concince my husband to get me
pregnant?
just talk to him and tell him that you
just want a little part of him inside
you... And then act depressed (maybe cry
from time to time, so he knows you want
this so bad)... And he'll come around
sooner than you think, because he cares
about you very much and the last thing he
wants to do is see you upset day and
night.
It worked from me - and now we're trying
every month.
So I wish you all the best and sendin you
lots of baby dust!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 11-02-06 08:48am
Don't guilt him into it though. It should
be a mutual decision. If he agrees only
for your sake, he might resent it later on
if he wasn't emotionally ready to become a
father. Babies are hard work, and can put
a lot of strain on a relationship.
Just be honest with him. Let him know how
important this is to you, but allow him
time to come around to the idea on his
own.
Good luck.
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ClarkHam427
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Joined: 16 Jun 2006 Posts: 91 Location: Creal Springs
Posted: 11-02-06 10:43am
You definately don't want to push him too
hard. If he isn't ready, then wait but
let him know that you don't have forever.
You don't want to have a child with
someone who really doesn't want one.
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Mamma-Wanna-Be
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 82 Location: Las Vegas, NV
Posted: 11-02-06 13:32pm
Just so I can clarify myself here a
little. I didn't really pressure my
husband into having a baby. I did act
depressed, just because i've been waiting
for this moment for 7 years because he
wasn't ready. We do have what we want
in life. He wanted to try in 2 years,
then he changed his mind and wanted to try
in 2 months (when we're in lake tahoe),
but I just told him that it might take us
few month or even 2 years to get
pregnant... And he decided that I was
right, and now we're trying every month.
Last month we didn't succeed, but we'll
see this month... We need all the baby
dust we can get!
Thanx!
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hemostatic_electricity
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Joined: 20 Feb 2006 Posts: 40
Posted: 11-02-06 13:56pm
That's down right scandalous. I'd be
ashamed of myself if I did something like
that. I bet if you told him your tactics
he'd be a might bit pissed!
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musikmaker
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Posted: 11-04-06 09:21am
My husband and I talked long and hard
about having a baby. For awhile he
reallyl didn't want one and that really
upset me. Eventually though I stopped
pushing and he all of the sudden decided
that he wanted a lil munchkin too! Now he
is the one that is going all baby crazy.
That didn't happen though until I shut up
and he was around my sisters little boys
alot.
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deebaby621
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 251 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 11-04-06 10:24am
If he's not ready then trying to coax him
is really not the right thing to do right
now. Let it be a decision that the both
of you agreed on that way no one feels
"pushy." pregnancy is something that is
very important for both the husband and
the wife, but the husband sometimes needs
longer to "settle" in as far as marriage
goes before he wants to have a baby. I
wish the both of you good luck!
