Well me and my girl told our parents.
They didnt take it as well as we thought
they would. There was alot of yelling at
us. We got the typical "how could you do
this" "why did you do it" "where did we go
wrong raising you" the whole nine yards.
We basically explained that it was a
mistake having sex in the first place and
not being so careful. But now its time
to take responsibility for our actions.
Then we told them we have it all figured
out. They threw at us "what do you have
figured out, you have nothing figured
out". We explained to them that first of
all my girlfriend is keeping the baby and
that we will be moving in together, raise
the baby. That first we are going to
move into the basement for a bit then
after we have enough money find out own
place.
"what are you going to do for work" was
another thing they said to us. I
explained I am still going to go into
djing and get another job so I have a
fixed income comming in every week, untill
the djing thing works out and I am busy
almost every weekend.
My girlfriends parents are like "are you
going to get married", we told them not
right away.
In the end they were taking it better then
what we thought they would. Now my
sister was like "cool" throughout the
whole time she found it nice to have a
baby in the family but I guess it's cause
she is till very young (10 years old). I
would like to say thank you for every one
who gave me advice.
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ANGELOS MAMA
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jul 2006 Posts: 1128 Location: , San Diego,California
Posted: 09-12-06 23:04pm
Thats good you told.Hope the advice I gave
you two worked.Good luck with your
family.Keep us updated.
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-13-06 09:33am
Thanks. Yes the advice you and a few
other uses gave me worked I think it made
it easier to tell them. But me and my
girlfriend have a long ways ahead of us
and still need alot of advice if you have
any other helpful advice could you please
post or pm me.
angelos mama
wrote:
thats good you told.Hope the
advice I gave you two worked.Good luck
with your family.Keep us
updated.
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ANGELOS MAMA
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jul 2006 Posts: 1128 Location: , San Diego,California
Posted: 09-13-06 20:44pm
Just tell your girl to pm me so I can talk
to her.
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-13-06 21:06pm
Alright I will call her up right now and
tell her to create an account and tell her
to pm you, I will also pm you to let you
know her usernme.
angelos mama
wrote:
just tell your girl to pm me
so I can talk to
her.