Feeling Left Out:(

Well I know it sucks..But my fiance is the same way..Things arent always the same when babys come along..Although we want them to be..Just talk to him about it ..But just remember its new addition to the family and he is probably just excited..

I just feel like I cnt tok to him about it thats thehard thing incase he goers crazy and calles me a jealous b&@*h im toop scared too :(

Well if you want things to be like they were..Then your going to have to be strong enough to talk to him about it..He probably doesnt even realise he does it ..So unless you say something its just going to keep happening..Plus with you just having the baby you might just be having a bit of depression(baby blues)...And what he is doing might not be as bad as you think it is..

Yeah ano I feel a wee bit weapy too see when hes just finished feeding her and we go to bed he turns away (neva useto do that) sometimes he even sleeps at the bottom of the bed because the cribs down there :( and we were out a walk and he kept walkin too fast and moand when I askd him to slow down and he neva let me push my babys pram even tho I sooo wanted to I just kept my mouth shut :( its soooooo hard :( I think im giona just say "why dont u cuddle me anymore" then take it from there :(

Well just be nice ..And try to talk and not yell..Im sure he will understand..He is probably just trying to help you out..

Girl, when I was pregnant, I used to think that it was gonna be hard to share my man with the baby. But you've gotta think, there are men out there who could give 2 shlts about their babies!! I let my man go!! Nothin I say is gonna make his leave his little girls sight!!

Sarah

I think the time after the baby is born can be trying on any relationship. What you are feeling is completely normal and a part of the post partum period. Sometimes it is the man who feels the way you feel right now. Sometimes it is the woman. Balancing a whole new little miracle between yourselves and your own relationship with each other is a challenge. You need. The baby needs. Your bf needs. Everyone has needs.

This is an especially hard time for you right now with all your hormones in flux the way they are. Giving birth is a hard job!

Talk to him. Not in an accusing manor (like saying, "you never..."), just let him know what your needs are. You are still the same person you were 4 days ago, but a whole new life has opened up for all of you.

Good luck.

Congrats on your little bundle!

Having a baby changes your relationship with your partner in so many ways. Because my husband works full-time, we don't have very much time just to ourselves anymore, and I get very lonely now that I don't have him all to myself. Sometimes when we're cuddling in bed watching a movie, the baby will wake up and stay awake until it's time for my husband to go to sleep, and I find myself angry at my daughter (though it isn't her fault) for cutting in on our quality time. Instead of getting much-needed attention from him, i'm taking care of a crying baby.

It's totally normal to feel this way. It takes a lot of adjustment! My baby will be 5 weeks old tomorrow and i'm still adjusting now. Your partner is getting used to becoming a father, and right now it's very overwhelming for him. It's really a beautiful thing that he has such an interest in your little girl, because a lot of fathers couldn't care less. Your baby is blessed to have such a loving daddy. He'll probably start to relax over the next week or two and start paying more attention to you again, once the shock wears off.

You know... He probably sees a lot of your beauty in her, and that's part of what fuels his need to be around her so much. ;)

Call me what you want.. I am one.. Heres a poem for you

a b*@%h is a dog
dogs bark
bark grows on trees
trees are nature
and nature is beautiful
so thank you for the compliment

Have you talked to him about it?

Hes not abusive :))! Not atal I just mean he'd laugh and say im just being silly and jealous :)) health forum was my own word :)) he'd ot call me anything like that just say im bein silly!

I ment im scared to talk incase im just being parnoid :| hes not abusive in anyway atal:|! And im not an attension seeker either I just came on askin some advice, I just dont wanna seem silly incase im thinking its worse than it is.