Well my parent told me tonight that they
wont be able to support me financially,
they said its too much money from them.
So basically im on my own from now on.
Now = I need to get a part time job and
save more less all my money. I know I can
do it. I wont need to buy clothes for a
while I have ton's and the same for shoes
I have 3 pair of running shoes and 1 pair
of boots.
Has anyone been in this situation before?
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diamondsz
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Posted: 09-13-06 19:38pm
Yep, your parents are teaching you
responsibility for your actions, now they
wont let you starve but they want to teach
you how to deal with the real world as it
harsh and full of bs.
I left my parents house at 17 because of
being pregnant, I lost it but got preggo
at 19 with my daughter and it was nice to
have the advantage to being ahead of the
game. Honestly things well get easier
but you need to get off your @ss now find
a good job and work it everyday the long
you show up everyday/put 120% it will be
awesome expierence to get yourself a
better job.
Kids dont stop you from doing anything
they can slow you down along the way but
things will work out, you just need to be
strong for yourself and your family to be!
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-13-06 19:41pm
Besides the dj thing im going to apply at
this computer store that is opening up
down the street from my house. I also got
this website from guidance @ school for
jobs, so im going to apply there as well
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diamondsz
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Posted: 09-13-06 19:43pm
ioanni
wrote:
besides the dj thing im
going to apply at this computer store that
is opening up down the street from my
house. I also got this website from
guidance @ school for jobs, so im going to
apply there as
well
im not saying your lazy, im just saying
you need to be mentally strong they would
rather hire someone who is confident/hard
worker over people who are shy, c0cky,
missing work all time.
Just be yourself basically
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-13-06 19:46pm
Thats what im basically do, walk in there
be myself, not shy or anything at all if
they dont hire me then say thank you for
the opportunity and walk away. Im pretty
sure I will land the job unless they need
some1 with a degree.
diamondsz
wrote:
ioanni
wrote:
besides the dj thing im
going to apply at this computer store that
is opening up down the street from my
house. I also got this website from
guidance @ school for jobs, so im going to
apply there as
well
im not saying your lazy, im just saying
you need to be mentally strong they would
rather hire someone who is confident/hard
worker over people who are shy, c0cky,
missing work all time.
Just be yourself
basically
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diamondsz
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Posted: 09-13-06 19:54pm
Actually you would be surprized.....
They would rather hire someone with a
degree or someone with expierence,
someone with a degree maybe understand all
the formal cr@p but with expierence you
cope better under stress.
I work in tech/support I also offer pc
repair services as well as minor program
deisgn/translation, I dont have any degree
I could definatly make more with a degree
but I bring in more cash then most people
do and I work harder to get where I need
to go.
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-13-06 19:57pm
I agree with you on that, they would
rather have someone with a degree.
But you never know its not a big place
maybe they might give me a shot.
diamondsz
wrote:
actually you would be
surprized.....
They would rather hire someone with a
degree or someone with expierence,
someone with a degree maybe understand all
the formal cr@p but with expierence you
cope better under stress.
I work in tech/support I also offer pc
repair services as well as minor program
deisgn/translation, I dont have any degree
I could definatly make more with a degree
but I bring in more cash then most people
do and I work harder to get where I need
to go.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 09-13-06 20:00pm
Iaonni expierence makes up for a degree so
if you can gurantee youll work harder than
ppl with a degree they will usually hire
you but they do happen to watch you more
carefully during a probation period
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IoannI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 72
Posted: 09-13-06 20:03pm
Thats the only way to really get the job
show them that you are better then one
with a degree. I was aslo thinking I
could put up flyer for computer
repair/upgrades just as a side thing to
make a lil extra $$$$
diamondsz
wrote:
iaonni expierence makes up
for a degree so if you can gurantee youll
work harder than ppl with a degree they
will usually hire you but they do happen
to watch you more carefully during a
probation
period
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Posted: 09-14-06 11:24am
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