Am I Just Paranoid? Please Help! Posted: 09-14-06 11:40am
I met this person at college and so far
i've slept with him a couple of times.
First time I had sex with him was about 2
weeks ago (4th september) and we didnt use
protection.. But that happened like only
a few days after my period so I think i'm
quite safe plus he didnt cum in me.
Anyways last week.., friday and saturday
(8 n 9th september) actually we had
intercourse a few times. We didn't use
protection(i know I should insist but it
was kinda sudden and unexpected that's
why) but I don't think he came in me
also.. But anyhow I took the morning
after pill saturday night.
Today is thursday the 14th and I bled a
little. It was like I had period but not
really heavy flow. Could this be that
the zigot or whatever is sticking to my
uterus wall (sorry my science sucks) coz I
heard that u bleed a little if that
happens and this usually occurs a few days
after sex.. Or is this just one side
effect of the morning after pill? This
is my first time on the pill by the way..
My friend said that it could possible be
the pill taking effect cause the stains
looked 'dirty' and not entirely bloody..
I don't know.. So what do you guys
think? Thanks loads
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 09-14-06 12:05pm
Some women experience a little bleed
around the time implantation is expected
to occur.
This does not happen in all women - indeed
it does not happen in most women.
That can be a common side effect of the
morning after pill.
The best thing to do is wait until your
period should have been due and then take
a pregnancy test.
If you are pregnant you need to decided
what you are going to do and get the
required medical attention.
If you are not pregnant you need to sort
out some birth control and fast.
Unprotected sex does not only risk
pregnancy but also many sti's.
Some your partner may not even know he
has!
Every time you sleep with a guy you also
sleep with all his past partners.
You may think he only slept with one other
girl - but how many guys did she already
sleep with and how many girls did they
already sleep with.
Girl-1 could sleep with 10 guys and get an
infection off guy-9. She probably won't
know right away.
So girl-1 has her one night stand with
guy-10 and passes on that infection.
Guy-10 goes and sleeps with girl-2 and so
the infection is passed on.
By now girl-1 might know she has an
infection.
Your fella sleeps with girl-2 and again
that infection is passed on.
He might never even know about it - some
diseases take a long time to show up.
Several months later he sleeps with you -
you get infected - all from girl-1!!!!!!
Some diseases can be treated easily - some
are forever such as herpes, and some are
terminal such as hiv (which develops
aids).
All for the 5 seconds it takes to put a
condom on!
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haliparot
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
Posted: 09-16-06 12:07pm
kia_breizzze
wrote:
some women experience a
little bleed around the time implantation
is expected to occur.
This does not happen in all women - indeed
it does not happen in most women.
That can be a common side effect of the
morning after pill.
The best thing to do is wait until your
period should have been due and then take
a pregnancy test.
If you are pregnant you need to decided
what you are going to do and get the
required medical attention.
If you are not pregnant you need to sort
out some birth control and fast.
Unprotected sex does not only risk
pregnancy but also many sti's.
Some your partner may not even know he
has!
Every time you sleep with a guy you also
sleep with all his past partners.
You may think he only slept with one other
girl - but how many guys did she already
sleep with and how many girls did they
already sleep with.
Girl-1 could sleep with 10 guys and get an
infection off guy-9. She probably won't
know right away.
So girl-1 has her one night stand with
guy-10 and passes on that infection.
Guy-10 goes and sleeps with girl-2 and so
the infection is passed on.
By now girl-1 might know she has an
infection.
Your fella sleeps with girl-2 and again
that infection is passed on.
He might never even know about it - some
diseases take a long time to show up.
Several months later he sleeps with you -
you get infected - all from girl-1!!!!!!
Some diseases can be treated easily - some
are forever such as herpes, and some are
terminal such as hiv (which develops
aids).
All for the 5 seconds it takes to put a
condom on!
i totally agree with you. It only takes
once to have a lifelong infection like
genital herpes or worse hiv
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Erica_Anneliese
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 16 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 09-16-06 12:17pm
Also, condoms even will not stop all std's
and sti's..
All it takes to get genital herpes is
rubbing of the pubic area, the penis and
vagina do not even have to touch to get
this disease
