the Perfect Relationship Gone Bad...but Idk What to Do! Posted: 09-14-06 16:13pm
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for
about 11 months now. Ever since I met
him, I started doing drugs and acting
differantly because thats how he is. I
thought he was the greastes thing. I was
13 and he ws 16 and
i was so happy to be egtting attention
form older guys and I was being
introduced to so many new things and
people.Things were great, but they've
changed..A lot.Ever since I got back form
vacation about 3 weeks ago things have
beebn weird. It was ok for about a week,
but then one saturday I snuck him over and
my mom caught him over and he had pot on
him so ive been grounded. I'm not
supposed to be in town but i'm allowed at
friends houses so whenever I go to my
friends house and i'm in town, i'm usually
trying to lay low and find a place to go.
When I see him i'm usually going somewhere
or have something important to do. He is
always at his friend rachels house. She's
26, he's 17. Shes a nice girl and she has
a boyfriend, but he goes there every day.
He complains that we dont hang out anymore
and then says that I dont care about him
anymore. It makes me feel shitty but I
know it's not entirly my fault. I'm not
sure if I still want to be with him
anymore, lately i've been thinking about
breaking up with him but i'm afraid that I
will regret it and even when I have the
courage to start and say something he gets
upset and says how much he loves me and
how he doesnt understand why things can't
be like they used to be. He's changed so
much since I first met him, or maybe i've
changed. We both had a drug problem when
we met, but when we started going out we
promised eachother that we would stop
doing pills and only smoke weed. Well at
first it was hard for me and I ended up
doing like 3 pills since then and
everytime he got so mad at me. We used to
fight so much and I was always the one to
say sorry. Well when I got back form my
vacation he told me that he did coke. I
dont care if he does drugs or anything but
if he's gonna yell at me for doing pills
then why would he expect anything
differant from me when he does them? When
I said I was mad he flipped out and said
he was under a lot of stress because I
wasnt there and it was offered to him so
he took it. And just yesterday I was in a
car with him and two other friends and he
went to one of the friends house and the
friend went inside and got him a methadone
and he just took it like it was nothing.
I dont know maybe i'm just crazy or
something but I dont know what to do.
Help!
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Joey9725
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2005 Posts: 30 Location: Sydney
online
Posted: 09-16-06 22:04pm
Wow there is alot happening. You need to
look at yourself and see that you are
still young and you will meet plently of
people in your lifef. Next you need to
stop drugs there are affecting you mentlly
and physicaly and you prob don't even
realise. This guy seems like he is not
worth and e needs help. I think you
should go and speak to someone
professionaly and get adivce before you
ruin your life. It is hard when you want
to fit in but its not worth it taking
drugs.
Please try and go off the drugs you will
thank your self one day
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Cha-Cha
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 May 2006 Posts: 151
Posted: 09-16-06 23:23pm
I think you should leave him. I know how
hard it will be to leave someone you
love... But drugs are nothing but
trouble. I think you should talk to
someone about your problems.... You
honestly need to stop doing drugs... And
your boyfriend does to. Either you should
both move away from them and have a
healthy clean life or you should leave him
and do that. You should be devoting your
time to doing well in school , having fun
with your friend ,and your boyfriend...
You shouldnt be doing drugs. They will
ruin your life.
Make a fresh start for yourself... Do
sports, join a club, go shopping with your
friends, go to the pool or a beach...
Have a romantic night with your
boyfriend... But dont do drugs! You want
to be healthy and stable in the future...
Not screwed up...
I would talk to your mother. She cares
about you so much! Thats why she doesnt
want you to see your boyfriend. Hes
obviously mad news....
Either support eachother and stop... Or
you should move on.
