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Becky

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Posted: 09-14-06 18:19pm

Please could I speak to some other single mothers. I'm feeling really confused right now. I'm beginning to think i'mn a heartless health forum.
I don't feel sad at all that we've split. I actually feel relieved. Did anyone else feel like this? I think I was actually beginning to hate him near the end and that is not good.

To all the uk mums- do you know any support groups I can join?
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~*~Jillian~*~

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Posted: 09-14-06 18:57pm

Gosh beck..I just want to say sorry ..For all these horrible things that are happening ..I always thought you and hubby were happy ..You never menioned being unhappy or fights or anything...Its come to a shock to me that you guys are split up...Are you guys not going to try and work things out..For the two of you and the kids? Or is it a done deal?
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Posted: 09-14-06 19:29pm

Jess (blaze) would be your best bet, anna (kirstens mommy) could help you with mayeb finding a group in uk since shes down there, sorry girls I just know in those dept you have more info to give than me.


Besides that dont feel bad, things must have been pretty bad for you not feel any remorse but becarful it may let you down!
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jessamyn

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Posted: 09-14-06 20:23pm

I'm a single momma if you ever want to talk to me
aim darlinjessa
email jes samynleesha@yahoo.Com
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Becky

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Posted: 09-15-06 04:43am

~*~jillian~*~ wrote:
gosh beck..I just want to say sorry ..For all these horrible things that are happening ..I always thought you and hubby were happy ..You never menioned being unhappy or fights or anything...Its come to a shock to me that you guys are split up...Are you guys not going to try and work things out..For the two of you and the kids? Or is it a done deal?


i guess its just not the kind of thing you want to post on a pregnancy forum. I fooled myself that things were fine. To the outside world (friends/ family) we were happy. I put on the false persona as I was ashamed.

We have tried to make it work but it has reached the end. We are both miserable and getting more miserable by the day. That is unhealthy environment for the kids.

Maybe a few months apart might be all we need. I sincerley hope so! We have been through alot together and I guess it was a case of too much- too young. :(
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diamond splinter

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Posted: 09-15-06 04:50am

beckster06 wrote:
please could I speak to some other single mothers. I'm feeling really confused right now. I'm beginning to think i'mn a heartless health forum.
I don't feel sad at all that we've split. I actually feel relieved. Did anyone else feel like this? I think I was actually beginning to hate him near the end and that is not good.




To all the uk mums- do you know any support groups I can join?



beckster this is a brilliant suport group for lone parents in the uk hun get in touch with them they can and will help you out all they can

http://www.Gingerbread.Org.Uk/

edited to add further links

http://www.Singleparents.Org.Uk /

http://messageboa rds.Ivillage.Co.Uk/iv-ukprsps
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Jules

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Posted: 09-15-06 05:52am

Not a single mum myself but have to agree with diamondsplinter about recommending .Gingerbread. I have heard nothing but fantastic things about them.

Best of luck hun.
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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 09-15-06 08:17am

I am a single mother too. Before my husband passed away we had split up like that too. To everyone else we were happy. I know the way that you are feeling.
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