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mommapooloo

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Posted: 09-15-06 01:57am

This is a sad time for me too because I follow the entertainment celebrity news and britney spears had her baby. We both were pregnant at the same time and this is the time that I would have had my baby if my spouse had not forced me to have an abortion... And then another abortion. It makes me feel so sad to have watched her pregnancy and read about it... And now she has her baby and I don't. - god bless
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Posted: 09-15-06 06:09am

When you were going to have the abortion did somebody in the clinic interviewed you and asked you if you were forced to have the abortion?
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Posted: 09-15-06 10:11am

No one can force you to have an abortion unless your spouse drugged you and performed the abortion himself. Why are you staying with someone who makes you do things against your will? Would you stay with this man if he raped you on a regular basis? You aren't someone's property, so don't allow yourself to be treated as such.
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Posted: 09-15-06 13:29pm

As much as this hurts to say...I...Agree...With...Cambion...

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Posted: 09-15-06 18:45pm

I agree too, your a grown woman you could have left I sure as hell would never put up with being told what I had to do, unless we both agreed. Why would you stay with a man who has strings on you??? What about equality/ marriage being 50/50???

Woman should stand up to men we are eqauls so if they tell you to f*ck off you do the same
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Posted: 09-17-06 14:10pm

stillherelosers wrote:
cambion wrote:
no one can force you to have an abortion unless your spouse drugged you and performed the abortion himself. Why are you staying with someone who makes you do things against your will? Would you stay with this man if he raped you on a regular basis? You aren't someone's property, so don't allow yourself to be treated as such.


well said... But this is just another example of a pro lifer trying to place blame on someone else so she can excuse herself of any responsibility for her choice.



i don't beleive that mommapooloo has stated a stance and anyway this board is not about stance and whether you are pro life or pro choice it is about support.

Mommapooloo although sad as your situation is there is no going back all I can say is this guy is no good for you and I think to improve you quality of life you need to get this guy out of it or at the very least talk to him tell him how you feel he coerced you into aborting and that you need to let him know from now on you are in charge of your life not him.

It is only natural to have feelings of loss and sadness when you see others with babies hun you need to greive for your loss though not let it eat away at you.
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