Bad Thoughts During Masterbation. Posted: 09-16-06 15:37pm
I have ocd and when I masterbate, at the
peak of my masterbation (before I release
sperm) I have a horrible thought about
something (usually something sexual) that
I do not want in my head. Sometimes I
would think of sex with a family member or
it would be about another guy or
something. Thoughts like these make me
extremely unconfortable and when I think
about them during masterbation, it makes
me want to do it again to "reset" that
thought (making it seem like it never
happened before)
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singledad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Aug 2006 Posts: 86 Location: New Mexico
Posted: 09-17-06 17:04pm
It happens, try not to worry too much
about it, of all the pornographic stories
on the internet, the number of incest
stories pretty much dwarves everything
else, it's some sort of american obsession
- they can't all be doing it, but it does
seem to crop up in fantasies an aweful
lot.
"familiarity breeds", as the saying goes,
and you know your family better than
anybody - it actually became quite a
problem back in medieval europe under the
feudal system when people weren't allowed
to travel about to other villages to find
mates, for fear another lord would claim
them or their offspring - the church
finally had to step in and forbid it.
Anyway, to some degree, as screwy as it
sounds, fantasizing about it appears to be
a pretty common stage of sexual
development: probobly a good reason most
men seldom ever talk about their
masturbation fantasies - you just need to
broaden your horizons, get to know some
girls, it'll pass.
If you have a genuine ocd, you might try
pornography: letting someone else "do the
fantasizing for you" might take the load
off your imagination.