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How to Fix Our Relationship? Posted: 09-20-06 14:51pm
So me and my hubby are on a break.......
We were both very destructive to eachother
during the last year. I had 2 babies in
10 months and it put alot of stress on us.
I decided to work from home but started
to resent my hubby for going out to work
and having 'freedom' with his friends etc.
I used to have snide remarks at him and
cause arguments. We stopped talking and
would barley say a word to eachother
accept to argue.
He has basically said to me that he fell
out of love with me a few months ago and
he wanted it to end completley but I
wanted to give it another try as the
realisation that I could lose him for good
was my wake up call.
Now the past few days we have started
talking to each other about what went
wrong in our relationship and what hurt.
He said that we have to get to know each
other as friends again so we can
rediscover ourselves again. He said no
sex and its hard for me as now I feel
closer to him than ever but he said we
have to start afresh.
I guess i'm just asking for advice. Has
anyone else been through a communication
breakdown and got through it and are still
together?
