Im Pregnant................ Posted: 09-21-06 11:17am
I just found out im pregnant.......
Agian. My bf got me pregnant months ago
and I had a miscarriage. When I told my
mom she told me how it was for the best
and that she would hate it if I was
pregnant. So we used protection (condoms)
and I still got pregnant. Im so scared
espically to tell my mom because I dont
want her to think I was trying to get
pregnant and I know she will now. Im
scared she wont be there for me and I need
her. She hated my bf so all this is a
mess. I should be freekin out at the fact
that im gonna have a child but im more
scared about telling my mom. That might
sound weird but I dont want her to think I
planed this and let her down. I just need
some advice on how to tell her please
cause like I said im freekin out. Thanks
so much girls .
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 09-21-06 11:20am
How old are you and your boyfriend??
You're mom is always gonna be a *little
bit* disappointed at the fact that you're
pregnant again because she wants you to
stay her little girl.
Depending on how old you are she'll prob
be more protective if you're young.
I thought my mom was gonna kill me, I was
20 and have been with my man for 4 years.
But she didn't.
I hope all goes well for you!
Sarah
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
Posted: 09-21-06 12:13pm
Sarah is right. Even my mom was
disapointed in me for getting pregnant
because I was finally back in college and
working twords a goal. But I was married
and very happy in my marriage and my mom
was still mad at me for getting pregnant.
But she is very happy now that .Amelia is
here
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jparry
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 89 Location: PA
Posted: 09-21-06 12:37pm
Telling your parents is always going to be
hard.. How did you tell her the first
time.. Maybe if you think back you will
have a little bit easier of a time..
My mom and I have always been close.. And
she too got pregnant as a teenager so she
wasn't disapointent.. I don't know what I
would have done had my mom not been there
for me the way she is..
Good luck in telling your mom...
I hope all is well. Pm me if you need
anything..
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Cambion
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posted: 09-21-06 23:15pm
Yes, telling your mother will definitely
be the hard part, but she would probably
think you were trying to get pregnant on
purpose if you wait until you're five
months gone to say anything. She won't be
pleased, but make sure you do your best to
explain to her this new pregnancy was not
intentional. May I ask what your living
situation is? Do you plan on caring for
this child yourself (and with the help of
your partner), or are you planning on
including your mother in the plan too?
I'm not saying this applies to you, but
please do not assume your mother will be
thrilled to take care of a child that
isn't hers. I assume you plan on keeping
the child?
Your mother will hate the fact that you're
pregnant, but she won't hate you. All
mothers are that way toward their
daughters - they want their daughters to
remain good, pure little virgins forever.
