Painful Sex - Feels Like I Have to Urinate! Posted: 01-24-04 20:06pm
It's always been too painful for me to
have sex.
I would be able to, but only a few thrusts
and then the pain would be too much and we
would have to stop. It would feel like I
had to urinate...I'd go to sit on the
toilet, and not a drop would come
out...Yet it would feel like I had to pee.
(did the thrusting somehow irritate my
bladder?)
lubrication is not a problem as I get very
wet. If I put my finger inside my vagina,
immediately, towards the front it feels
like there is this spot, about the size of
a large marble. I don't know if this is
just me, or if every woman's vagina is
like this. I can kind of crook my finger
around it to enter to the rest of my
vagina. This is the spot that hurts for
me, either stroking it or pushing on it.
Is this normal?
I have a gyno appointment in the next few
days...I want to make the best use of the
time I have there and be very
prepared...The waiting list to get into
the gyno clinic is months...
I'd appreciate it if anybody can help me
with questions I can ask.
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Sandra112
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 18 Location: California
All You Need to Do Is Relax And Enjoy It Posted: 02-06-04 15:57pm
Relax and try new positions, it really
helps out!
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teags
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2004 Posts: 15
Hmm Posted: 02-07-04 21:03pm
Well i've heard that the sensation of
peeing while having sex is supposed to
feel really good.. It happens to me all
the time, and I quite enjoy it.. So im
not too sure why it would be painful for
you!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 02-16-04 02:48am
It could be a lot of things sweetie!
First of all, I dont know how the
sensation of having to pee could feel good
as it hurts me! But anyway, your bladder
could be abnormally close to your cervix.
Your uterus could be "tipped" this is
very common and can be very painful. You
on top should make it hurt less, but
everyone is different. Or you could have
a cyst or something. Definately try to
get into the gyno to rule out anything
serious. They can tell you if your
uterus is tipped or if your bladder is
close to your cervix. If it is the
latter, this really sucks. I have this,
and sex can be a real pain in the ass.
As soon as I start to have intercourse I
feel like I have to pee and I cannot enjoy
myself. Eventually, I have to stop and
go pee even though it is just a drop or
two, then we have to try to get back into
it again.
