Complications With Orgasm, Ed, Masterbation And Pornography Posted: 09-24-06 12:24pm
Sorry this is so long. Its suckers as I
could make it...
When I was with my first long term gf,
which was my first sexual relationship, I
never had a problem with ed. After we
broke up (and for the past 6 yrs) i've
struggled with ed. I know its in my head,
and its gotten a bit better. On top of
this I realized a bit back that I have a
porn addiction that spans a number of
years. I have been to therapy and am
still gaining a grasp on it with good
results.
In the relationship I am in now, I haven't
suffered from ed. I attribute that to
viagra. I started out with a half dose
and now I barely take it at all. I sort
of regained function but an still have low
confidence in that area, so I still take
it at times.
My problem now lies with ejaculation. It
seems that i've desensitized myself and
can only get off to porn. I try
masterbating without it and it takes so
much to get off, and usually doesn't
happen. Its the same with real sex. I
have to be in a certain position, and
really try hard to actually cum.
I'm wondering if there is a way to
resensitize myself, or be able to get off
easier during actual intercourse.
