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Sandbox Party

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Joined: 25 Jul 2006
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Posted: 09-27-06 14:35pm

Ok... Im sure you guys remember the whole story ive told u about my best friend and her loser husband and her unhealthy attachment to him..

Well heres the thing...

Its getting worse.

Yesterday I went by her apt to take her to fill a scrip, and my younger brother was with me because he accompanied me to pick .Rob up from work since i've been having those pains in my lower stomach that might be early contractions.... Well, that only left room for one person.. (me, nick, rob, jacob.. And room for one more..) well... Lemme tell u... That .super guy Hubby of hers had the .B.A.L.L.S to get an attitude because he couldnt go with her to the store because there wasnt enough room in my car! Started shaking his head in disaproval.. And goes*i guess I cant go with you. Nicks with them.* and then goes *whatever, figures.*

then kel had the audacity to be like, *huh.. Oh well..* all exasperated like i'd done something wrong.

Omg guys I wanted to get out of the car and punch him in the neck.

Seriously, just being around him turns my soul a dark shade of gray.

And im starting to feel like a chauffer instead of a friend.

I just dont know what to do.
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Melissa_20

Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida

Posted: 09-27-06 14:46pm

Theres nothing you *can* do.I would just leave her alone.As much as you want to help her out she will not see it for herself.She has to see it and want help to get help.I would leave her alone.
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Sandbox Party

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Joined: 25 Jul 2006
Posts: 7276

Posted: 09-27-06 14:51pm

Yeah and she got all pissed off because im moving into a super nice house with my other best friend, .Heidi instead of her and .fool. Heidi is waaaaaaaay more responsible and mature and hates .fool just as equally as I do.

I outright told her... Im sorry but I cant stand ur husband and refuse to be inthe same house with him. Hes irresponsible, immature, and a habitual liar.

She got upset and was like, well, he lies all the time because he thinks people wont like him otherwise.

I was like, well guess what.. That makes peopel hate u more for being fake rather than they would have if you'd shown ur true side.
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Melissa_20

Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida

Posted: 09-27-06 15:00pm

rainfire1424 wrote:
yeah and she got all pissed off because im moving into a super nice house with my other best friend, .Heidi instead of her and .fool. Heidi is waaaaaaaay more responsible and mature and hates .fool just as equally as I do.


I outright told her... Im sorry but I cant stand ur husband and refuse to be inthe same house with him. Hes irresponsible, immature, and a habitual liar.


She got upset and was like, well, he lies all the time because he thinks people wont like him otherwise.


I was like, well guess what.. That makes peopel hate u more for being fake rather than they would have if you'd shown ur true side.


yeah if she is going to be like that,forget her.I had to do the same thing with my little sister.Her hubby has totally taken over and she let him. I went over to their place about a month ago and they wouldn't even open the door cause I ad gotten into a fight with her hubby like a month b4 that.So ikeyed his car and I think he filed a police report but he didn't see me do it and they have no proof so they're screwed!
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Sandbox Party

Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006
Posts: 7276

Posted: 09-27-06 15:03pm

melissa_20 wrote:
so ikeyed his car and I think he filed a police report but he didn't see me do it and they have no proof so they're screwed!



lmao they do now, dorkface!!! :p
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Magical Logic

Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2006
Posts: 2248

Posted: 09-27-06 17:44pm

I know what u mean about feeling like a chauffeur rather than a friend. I have a friend who seems to only call me lately when she needs a ride knowing that I am pregnant and live 30 mins away.So now I just dont answer the phone when she calls I aint as stupid as she thinks I am
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