Me and my husband were considering
expanding our sexual horizons(so to speak)
by getting togeather with another couple.
I was wondering if this is a common thing
these days and if doing this has ended
anyones' relationship.
Thank
lady ashen
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Sandra112
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 18 Location: California
Its Ok Posted: 02-04-04 15:47pm
Have you guys ever tried a 3some? I ask
this because my partner wants to have a
3some, I dont think this will do anything
to a relationship as long as you both know
its a one time deal and you guys talk
about it, I believe is very comon now a
days..
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Posted: 05-20-05 13:51pm
Read this forum and my reply as well.
My reply:
the first step is for you and your husband
to be the voyers. You should be fully
clothed, sit next to your husband, and
just watch the other couple through their
entire routine from forplay to climax.
This will give you an idea of your comfort
level without being involved. It will
also allow you to witness another couple's
love making. That alone may be enough to
spark the creativity that you are seeking
without going too far. If you still want
to join, you will at least be comfortable
with alredy seeing the other couple and
make sure that you are both into it.
Make a red flag word or phrase for you and
your husband. Use it if you get even the
slightest hint or nervousness.
