My daughter was born at 33 weeks due to placental abruption, 4lbs 2oz and 16in. She'll be 14 months on wednesday and she's doing great! She's a fast learner, though she's not walking yet.. It'll be soon!
Having a girl preemie is a definite bonus.. Girls tend to do better in nicu then boys do just because they're lungs do mature faster. Have they given you steriod shots for her lungs yet? I'd request that if you haven't. Generally a 33 weeker will do great and will probably only have difficulty feeding. I lost my mucous plug a week or so before I delivered so just keep an eye on things. Don't hesitate to head to the hospital if you feel like you should. Good luck, if you have any questions, feel free to ask me!
Oh, btw.. My daughter was only in nicu for 15 days. It's hard leaving your baby there, but she'll be home with you in no time!